This toy was definitely designed
Yank, yank, yank! With each thrust, I felt my body pulled back into his.
Yank, yank, yank! With each tug, the strap tightened around my belly, and I felt him slam into me.
Yank, yank, yank! With each pulling impact, my screams grew louder, and my knees grew weaker. By the time he was done with me, I was slumped over on the bed, a puddle being held up only by the
Plushy Gear Lover's Harness.
I have seen toys similar to the
Lover's Harness for a long time--the doggie style strap and the like. They've never really piqued my interested. What sold me on the Lover's Harness, which is so similar to its position toy counterparts? Simply handles. Even though they are made of a plastic fashioned to look like metal, those hinging handles had me convinced to try.
Usually, when my partner does me from behind (sans toy assistance), he grips and grabs all over my hips for leverage. I love it, but skin can get slippery with sweat. With the Lover's Harness, there is no slipping and sliding or groping and pinching. It places two solid handles right there on my back. The harness is comfortable. The thick strap is slightly padded, and though it pulls you tight when your partner does, it doesn't hurt. It is also severely adjustable, offering a long length of velcro fastening to fit just about any playmate.
I babble on about the Lover's Harness in doggie style because that is where it was the most vivid and enjoyable for us, but its uses don't cease there. The toy is versatile for any position where you might want to get a better grip and some more leverage from your partner's body. It worked well around his chest as I rode him in cowgirl and around my waist as I rode him in reverse cowgirl.
It definitely enables one to get quite carried away. We could have rougher, nastier sex with less fear of him slipping out and injuring himself on the reentry attempt. I loved the Lover's Harness intensely, though I never expected to.
Glad I could help!
Oooh, sounds like it's a lot of fun! Good thing you wrote a review on it--just looking at the picture, it doesn't actually look that great, but based on what you've said, I'd definitely try one out.
CW, I haven't washed it yet, but on first impression, it seems sturdy enough to handle a good washing. I'll get on the testing.
DD, for plastic, they hold up surprisingly well. I was disappointed that they only look like metal, but they did surprise me at how rough they allowed us to be. They may not survive everything, but they took a good deal with us.
O, yes that would be horrible. It hasn't happened to us yet, but from my experience so far, it would take a good deal to break them.
CM, exactly! Brilliant idea!
JJ, you're welcome :)
Now that's thinking outside the box CookieMonster. Then you would have your choice of handles too. Thanks for the great review, Chris.
If all else fails then you can get handles exactly like this from a hard ware store that are actually made from metal.
This looks fun but, I do have to agree with Dame Demi on this one. The plastic handles concern me too as hubby can get quite excited as well as myself. It would suck to be riding away and break a handle only to be toppled off into the floor. Ouch!
The handles really DO look like metal, but their plastic composition concerns me. How well do you think they'll hold up?
Hot.
You're right, this does seem more useful than typical straps without anything to really hold on to, other than slippery material. Have you tried washing it, and does it hold up?