A Great "First" Strap-on

Overall, this is a great product for beginners. The New Comers Strap-On Kit offers a comfortable harness that can be adjusted to fit up to 60" hips. The dildo is small (3/4" diameter) and purple, so intimidation becomes a non-issue. If you're looking for your first strap-on, this toy is a wonderful, inexpensive way to take that first step.
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Pros
great for beginners, adjustable and comfortable harness, safe material, inexpensive, not realistic
Cons
dildo is too short, no stimulation for the wearer
Rating by reviewer:
4
extremely useful review

Use

As it states in its name, the New Comers Strap-On Kit is a good choice for beginners in all sorts of strap-on play. My partner and I use it for vaginal sex, but as you can see from other reviews, it can definitely be used for anal sex as well.

The harness itself is comfortable and easy to use. All of the straps are adjustable, making it perfect for those in relationships with someone of a different size than themselves if you'll both be using it.

The dildo included is silicone, and as EdenFantasys recommends with waterproof silicone toys, it's best to soak this toy is warm water before use to warm it up. I learned first-hand that being penetrated with a cold dildo is rather uncomfortable. Also, be sure to use a water-based lube when using silicone toys.

Advanced users would likely be displeased with this toy due to the small size of the dildo, as it is only 3/4" in diameter and 5" long.

Performance

The harness was great, easily adjusted and comfortable to wear. Neither of us had any problems putting it on or taking it off. The provided dildo itself sits securely in the harness and stays secure during use. We haven't tried it with any other toys yet, but if we do I'll be sure to mention that in my follow-up.

For performance, I was more pleased with the harness than the dildo. We had a bit of trouble with the dildo because of it's size. Although both of us think the 3/4" is perfect for us as beginners, the length left a bit to be desired. The dildo often comes all the way out, even when you don't mean it to, and in order to avoid that you have to restrict your movement to shorter strokes. We had to get a little creative with positioning as well, but with practice this isn't a huge problem.

Care and Maintenance

The harness is nylon, and the packaging says it's machine washable. I get a little worried about washing it that way often because I don't want to wear it out, so I typically hand wash it after use and only machine wash after a handful of times.

The dildo is silicone, so you can boil it or put it in the top rack of your dishwasher to fully disinfect it. Because I live at school and don't have a dishwasher, I typically just use soap and hot water. I've found that dust clings to this toy, so make sure you clean it before using it as well as after.

Packaging

The strap-on and dildo were packaged together. The front of the pink box has a photograph of an attractive heterosexual couple with the woman wearing the strap-on. The outside of the box lists the feature of the product:
- 4-way adjustable strap-on
- Please silicone dildo
- Fits up to 60" hips
- Machine washable

The back has the same list of features, adding that this kit is "perfect for beginners or pegging" and that the o-ring accepts dildos up to 1 1/4" in diameter. The instructions are minimal, also listed on the back of the box, simply explaining how to put on the harness.

Experience

I think all I have to say is be patient. My partner and I were really hesitant the first time we used this, I broke out into giggles, we got frustrated, and it wasn't a very pleasant experience. With more practice, it becomes obvious that this is a good product. The dildo really is the perfect size for beginners, and the harness is easy to wear.

I've also found that the bonus of this product is that even when my partner isn't around I can take the dildo out of the harness and use it alone.
Follow-up commentary
I should clarify. I like it, but that doesn't mean it is still perfect for me. I'm just ready to step it up a bit. The dildo that came with this strap-on kit is completely smooth and only 3/4". Since the O-ring can take up to 1 1/4", that'll be my next purchase. I want something a little thicker, a little longer, and with some more texture.

That said, I do still enjoy using this toy, both the dildo and the harness together and the dildo alone. I'm glad this was my first strap-on.
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  • Contributor: Kayla
    Awww. You made me smile with the "blessed with wide-set hips" comment. That's cute. Great review.
  • Contributor: jk68
    Thanks for the review. Got this and my man love when i use it on him
  • Contributor: Sexual Engineer
    Hey I gave you the tip to warm it up!
  • Contributor: Eliza
    @Sexual Engineer, yeah, I know! I'm definitely going to do that next time.
  • Contributor: TheSlyFox
    thanks for the review
  • Contributor: monty6868
    I'm glad to see that there are harnesses out there for the non media definition of Beautiful. I get so frustrated with everything being for the skinny ladies. I myself like the more curvy women. I too had to laugh at the wide set hips comment. Thank You. We were going to be getting this one soon.
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