A Great Starter

The Mistress is fun and easy to use. My boy loves the way it looks on me in a harness, and I love using it to please him. A great beginner toy, we're looking at experimenting with some bigger cocks, but will definitely keep The Mistress in our rotation!
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Pros:
smooth, slim design, great for beginners, easy to care for
Cons:
weak vibe, may be too slim for more experienced users
Rating by reviewer:
4
useful review

Use

The Mistress is fantastic for beginning anal play. The slim design and wide base make The Mistress perfect for backdoor use with or without a harness, and the included bullet vibe helps kick things up a notch.

When used with the bullet vibe, The Mistress can also be fun vaginally, though it is a bit thin.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Gender play
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • G-spot
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

The Mistress is made of a high-quality silicone, giving it an extremely smooth feel. The color is absolutely gorgeous as well. The only downside is that the silicone is a bit soft, so you might have to give the cock some extra guidance during penetration so that it doesn't bend.

As with all silicone toys, The Mistress is best used with water-based lube to avoid possible damage (silicone lube can cause the toy to break down). Also, the toy can be a magnet for hair, dust, etc...so proper cleaning and storage are essential.
    • Flexible
    • Harness compatible
    • No odor

Design / Shape / Size

My boy and I both loved the design of The Mistress. The smooth, slender shaft ends in a realistic head, perfect for stimulating the P-spot or G-spot. The wide base makes it perfect for use with any harness, and also makes it easy to grip the toy for use without a harness.
    • Beginner
    • Partner play

Performance

The Mistress is best used with the bullet vibe, in a harness, for anal play. The wide base keeps the dildo right where you want it, and the slim shaft makes it perfect for beginners.

The only improvement I can think of would be with the insertable bullet vibe. The vibrations aren't terribly strong, and really did nothing for me, on the "giving" end.
    • Comfortable
    • Discreet sound
    • Easy to use

Care and Maintenance

The Mistress is extremely easy to care for. Since it is made of silicone, it can be washed with warm water and antibacterial soap or a mild bleach solution. It is also dishwasher-safe (top rack), and can be boiled for a few minutes to sanitize.

This toy should only be used with water-based lube.

The Mistress can act like a magnet for dust, lint, and hair, so proper cleaning and storage is essential. The toy comes in a plastic capsule, which is great for storage. I usually just wash the dildo with soap and water, and then place it in the capsule with one end removed to dry.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store

Packaging

The Mistress comes in a plastic capsule...clear, with red ends. The packaging does a good job of showcasing the somewhat futuristic-looking design of the dildo, and is great for storage.
    • Good for storage
    • Minimal
Follow-up commentary
Almost a year later, and The Mistress continues to spice up our bedroom play. I definitely prefer it with the vibe, as it helps to reinforce the dildo and give it that extra bit of "oomph", but it gets the job done either way. I WILL say that a good harness is essential for hands-free play. There's nothing more annoying than a floppy dick that you have to adjust every five minutes! We may eventually decide to "graduate" to something more substantial (read: bigger), but for now, The Mistress is where it's at.
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Comments
  • Antipova
    Antipova  
    Welcome to Eden, and great job on your first review!

    Thanks for mentioning that it bends a little on insertion---that was the trouble with my first pegging dildo, too. I'm curious, though, did your partner feel any of the vibrations?

    I hope to read more from you---check out the Mentor Program if you want a personal tour-guide to the site.
  • Naie
    Naie  
    He definitely was able to feel the vibrations, mostly near the base...The vibe actually inserts through the base, and you can feel the vibrations at least halfway up the shaft, if not a little further than that. I could feel them on my end as well, but because of where the base lies on me while in the harness, it wasn't doing a whole heck of a lot. The boy seems to prefer using The Mistress with the bullet vibe, which means I'm going to have to go battery shopping since we seem to have worn it out! (No big deal, it takes three coin-type batteries, which you can pick up just about anywhere).

    Thanks for mentioning the Mentor Program...I'll definitely look into it!
  • Pink Jewel
    Pink Jewel  
    Thanks for the review
  • Elnoa
    Elnoa  
    Thanks for the review!
  • Lizzy
    Lizzy  
    thanks
  • Brandonn
    Brandonn  
    Nice
  • ECU Pirate
    ECU Pirate  
    Great review thanks!
  • LavenderSkies
    LavenderSkies  
    Thanks!
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    LuciFaery  
    Thank you for the review!
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    lovebites  
    thanks for the review!
  • brevado
    brevado  
    Great review. Thanks!
  • Zombirella
    Zombirella  
    Good first review. I also suggest checking out the mentor program
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    garylangworthy420  
    thanks for the review!
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    GenderSexplorations  
    Nice review!
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    Nacht Stern  
    Thanks for sharing!
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    Rory  
    Nice review! Thanks!!
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