A Very Comfortable Harness That Fits All
The Sedeux Divine Diva is a comfy, fabric, plus-sized harness that conveniently comes with 3 differntly-sized O-rings, will fit most bodies well, and doesn't take a long time to put on and adjust.Published: December 22, 2008
Pros:
Comfort, Functionality, Size Range
Cons:
Leg straps are a bit hard to loosen
The Sedeux Divine Diva definitely lives up to its promise of comfort. All of the other harnesses I’ve used have been made of leather, and leather might look hotter than fabric, but I've discovered that fabric fits better and feels better. Even though it’s not quite as hot-looking as my lover's leather Outlaw harnesses I think I’ll probably use it more often. It says a lot about the product that I predict that this will become my go-to harness.
I initially worried that the leg straps would be slightly uncomfortable because they exhibit a similar design as those in a leather Sedeux harness, but it wasn’t a serious problem. It’s just slightly cumbersome to have something circling your entire thigh instead of just running between your legs and connecting to the waist strap in the back. Ultimately, this is not a serious issue because the fabric straps on the Divine Diva are more flexible, thinner, and softer than in the leather Sedeux harness, and it’s really not too cumbersome—although there might be some slight in-between-the-legs discomfort, that's pretty inescapable with any harness if you have fleshy thighs. Fortunately, the front connectors in this harness *are* placed further outward than in the leather Sedeux harness, which helps it fit larger bodies well.
The front and back pieces are soft, lightly padded, and comfortable. I worried that the straps would loosen, but they are easy to tighten by pulling on them and stay put rather well. To help loosen and remove the waist straps, just pull up on the plastic connector. I felt like putting this harness on in the heat of the moment took slightly less time than putting on and adjusting one of my other leather harnesses. In theory, getting the plastic connectors caught on something could cause the waist straps to loosen at an inopportune time, but this didn’t happen to me, and I don’t think it would be much of an issue for anybody. The leg straps are harder to loosen that the waist strap, and pulling the plastic up doesn’t do much, but they are easy enough to tighten, which is probably the most important part of the process.
The Divine Diva Harness fits up to 82” waist and 44” thighs, but I think it would work just as well for smaller bodies that are at least a size 6 or 8. My hips are in the 50 range and my waist in the 40 range, and it fit like a charm. I placed it low, around the lower hips and with the front pad against the top of my pubis, and that worked well for increasing my own pleasure. It helpfully comes with three black, rubber O-rings, in 1.5-, 1.75-, and 2-inch sizes. Using an appropriately-sized O-ring will help maintain the stability of the cock.
To clean this fabric harness, either throw it in the washing machine on gentle (after removing the O-ring), or wash it by hand in a sink.
I initially worried that the leg straps would be slightly uncomfortable because they exhibit a similar design as those in a leather Sedeux harness, but it wasn’t a serious problem. It’s just slightly cumbersome to have something circling your entire thigh instead of just running between your legs and connecting to the waist strap in the back. Ultimately, this is not a serious issue because the fabric straps on the Divine Diva are more flexible, thinner, and softer than in the leather Sedeux harness, and it’s really not too cumbersome—although there might be some slight in-between-the-legs discomfort, that's pretty inescapable with any harness if you have fleshy thighs. Fortunately, the front connectors in this harness *are* placed further outward than in the leather Sedeux harness, which helps it fit larger bodies well.
The front and back pieces are soft, lightly padded, and comfortable. I worried that the straps would loosen, but they are easy to tighten by pulling on them and stay put rather well. To help loosen and remove the waist straps, just pull up on the plastic connector. I felt like putting this harness on in the heat of the moment took slightly less time than putting on and adjusting one of my other leather harnesses. In theory, getting the plastic connectors caught on something could cause the waist straps to loosen at an inopportune time, but this didn’t happen to me, and I don’t think it would be much of an issue for anybody. The leg straps are harder to loosen that the waist strap, and pulling the plastic up doesn’t do much, but they are easy enough to tighten, which is probably the most important part of the process.
The Divine Diva Harness fits up to 82” waist and 44” thighs, but I think it would work just as well for smaller bodies that are at least a size 6 or 8. My hips are in the 50 range and my waist in the 40 range, and it fit like a charm. I placed it low, around the lower hips and with the front pad against the top of my pubis, and that worked well for increasing my own pleasure. It helpfully comes with three black, rubber O-rings, in 1.5-, 1.75-, and 2-inch sizes. Using an appropriately-sized O-ring will help maintain the stability of the cock.
To clean this fabric harness, either throw it in the washing machine on gentle (after removing the O-ring), or wash it by hand in a sink.
Follow-up commentary
3 months after original review
It's not the hottest harness in my collection, but it's definitely the most comfortable. And that's why it's still my go-to harness. Who cares about dyed leather and ornamental pieces when this comfy cloth harness lets me thrust away like mad without pinching my tender bits?
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Is this the only plus size strap on available?
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When searching for a plus size harness/ strap on.. this is the only one I came up with. I have never owned one before but really think it is something i want. I'm a plus size gal, and while I like this one, I just wanna know if anyone has stumbled across any others..
Are their any other options for plus size ladies?
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General consensus is that Aslan's Minx harnesses are pretty extremely adjustable, from what I remember. Check out the reviews on those!
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Quote: General consensus is that Aslan's Minx harnesses are pretty extremely adjustable, from what I remember. Check out the reviews on those!Thank you very much
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how small of a waist will this fit?
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I love the subtle styling of this harness, but how small of a waist will it fit? My wife isn't much of a larger girl. Not sure waist size she is, maybe a size 10? 12?
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Should fit a ten or a twelve.
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One of the reviews says that they thought it'd fit down to a 6 or 8 even. So, I'd say a 10/12 should be fine.
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How does it rest?
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Mandy HallemanHow does it rest on a girl with a belly? Others that I've seen tend to rest low, at a bad angle for sex -
fstop65Question: Is woman's vagina accessible while wearing this harness? -
Quote: Question: Is woman's vagina accessible while wearing this harness?It should be since it uses straps around the butt instead of underwear style.
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Nice review! This product fills a hole which I think had been overlooked by most companies for some time.
Man this harness really does look DIVINE! I particularly love the back.
Nice review SG!
I had been asked about a good plus size harness. Now I'll know what to suggest. Great review!
Thanks, Playful!
Question: Is woman's vagina accessable while whering this harness?
I'm not a fan of how thin the leg straps are, but overall, this looks like a nifty harness. Great review!
Thanks ! Nice review
Thank you for the review!
Thanks for reviewing