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Cheap as You Dare

For the price, this is a great beginner harness or novelty for a night of impromptu strap-on play. But my advice for anyone serious about strap-on play is to save your money and buy a sturdier jock style harness. You, and your lovers, will notice the difference.
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Pros:
Discreet
Fits most bodies
Interchangeable O ring
Cheap
Cons:
Uncomfortable
Straps slip when slick
Rides high on pelvis
Rating by reviewer:
3
extremely useful review

Use

Because it is discreet, easy to adjust for a wide range of bodies and inexpensive, this harness works well for those planning a night of impromptu strap-on play and for any strap-on beginner not yet ready to invest in a more expensive harness. It can also be a great option for trans* people who face dysphoria from more intrusive harnesses. But if you are looking for a harness for frequent heavy play, this harness doesn't cut it.
    • Travel friendly

Material

The harness is made out of black nylon strapping, plastic clips for adjustment, and unpainted metal clasps and two O rings. The nylon strapping is waterproof and sturdy, but it caused some discomfort from rubbing with long term use/play. When the strapping gets slick, it slips out from the adjustment clips, which can cause some problems mid-play. The metal clasps and rings WILL rust if you don't wipe them down and let them dry after play.
    • Nylon

Design / Craftsmanship

It is a G-string style harness, which alone is enough to turn me off. No matter how much I fussed with the adjustments, I could never seem to get the dildo to ride lower on my pelvis over my cock, unlike jock strap style harnesses I own. The straps are under an inch wide, and can cut into skin with use. Worse, because it is a G string harness, it can unpleasantly rub in more *sensitive* places.

Perhaps one of the best features of this harness is the interchangeable O ring. It comes with a 1.5" O ring, but it can be compatible with any flared base dildos with just a quick run to the hardware store.
    • Fits many size toys
    • Interchangeable o-ring

Size / Fit

All of the straps are adjustable and have a lot of extra material to work for many bodies. My size is generally 34-35", and my partner is 45" or so, and this harness fit both of us very well with room to adjust larger. While of course it will not fit everyone, it genuinely will fit most.
    • Adjustable
    • Can be worn under clothing
    • Will fit most body sizes and types

Performance

As I mentioned, the straps slipped when they get slick, which of course is a major concern. I had to re-adjust almost every time I used this harness for penetrative sex. While physically adjusting the straps is easy enough, I had trouble adjusting the harness so that it sat low enough on my pelvis to be stimulating--while also not uncomfortably rubbing my lips. You also have to readjust every use to slip it on and off, compounding this problem.

The O ring did its job when the straps were adjusted snugly, and held up in all positions save when the straps slipped.
    • Adjustments slip
    • Chafes

Care and Maintenance

Because the clasps and O rings are unpainted metal, these parts can rust after prolonged contact with lube, cum, water or any other liquid. I made the mistake of not promptly wiping it off and thoroughly drying after play, and the clasps rusted (especially where covered by the damp strapping that didn't dry as quickly). I would recommend rinsing the harness with warm water and soap. Remove the O ring, towel dry the straps, and then hang to dry.
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  • Greenleaf
    Greenleaf  
    Thank you for the review! Good points about the metal clasps and o-ring! I didn't think about rust. o_O
  • Loriandhubby
    Loriandhubby  
    I'm sorry you did not enjoy this one. I have no problem getting it sit low enough. I just love my harness.
  • SMichelle
    SMichelle  
    Thanks for the review.
  • GONE!
    GONE!  
    I have this harness too but haven't reviewed it yet. I totally agree with you on every point!
  • Rey
    Rey  
    great review, and i agree on all points
  • SadoMas
    SadoMas  
    ty
  • CuddleWhore
    CuddleWhore  
    Thanks for a wonderful review!
  • MistressDandelion
    MistressDandelion  
    Thanks for the review, sorry the clasps rusted
  • transfag
    transfag  
    Thanks for the comments. This harness didn't work out well for me, but it works for some people well. Just a matter of preference, I suppose
  • elli
    elli  
    thanks for the review! I hadn't thought about the rusting issue.
  • yarii
    yarii  
    ty
  • sugar&spikes
    sugar&spikes  
    thanks for the review!
  • Modern^Spank^Anthem
    Modern^Spank^Anthem  
    good review
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