Sydnee Steele's crystalessence harness - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by TattooQueen

Sydnee Steele's cystalessence is a dildo and harness that can be used for many different roles. You can use this for solo play without the harness and with a female or male partner. This harness is a great beginner harness for those that are wanting to try it out but are not sure if they will like and don't want to dish out the money that some harnesses cost.

The material for this dildo is called cystalessence which is a higher grade firm jelly. It has the benefits of still being somewhat flexible but is by far more sturdy than regular jelly dildos. I personally don't find this material to be amazing. You have to store it in a silk lined bag or even a large zippie bag would do as well, but it attracts lint, hair, dust, you name it and it will be stuck all over this. Now the harness itself is made with mixed materials. It has some leather straps that are adjustable up to 42". I'm not a fan of the funky plastic that is in the front I found that it didn't feel good against my skin.

I think that for this being a more of a beginner harness and the price you pay, the craftsmanship is ok. I wish that they would have put more into the o-ring design and made it with something other than the plastic. It does adjust quite well up to 42" so it can be used on many different body shapes and sizes. I did like the thong design that was comfortable. The dildo was made well. There are no seams or any mistakes with it. It has the look and feel of a real penis which is nice.

The harness fit me well. I am an average size woman (currently pregnant) and I had no issues getting it adjusted to fit me.

This was our first time using a harness. We used it for pegging. I think that the harness did its job well. We didn't go crazy since it was our first time and we wanted to take things easy. I did not notice any tears or rips afterward. The dildo that came with the harness stayed in well and I didn't have to adjust it. Since we used it for pegging, we only did the basic doggy style to try it out and it did well.

I'm not impressed with the material of the dildo. Since it is not the safest of materials to be using for anal play, we used a condom on it. I used hot water and soap afterward to clean as well as a toy cleaner. I suggest using a silk lined bag or a zippie bag to store this in because it attracts every little piece of lint, dust, or hair that is near it. I also cleaned the plastic part of the harness afterward with a toy cleaner just to be safe.

Like I had said before, we used this for our first time pegging and it was ok. My husband thought the dildo was too long, so we took it slow and we didn't go crazy. I think that this is the perfect beginner harness to see if you would like it. But if you are wanting something to keep up with a lot of use, I would suggest getting a different harness.