Leather ring harness - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by Insatiable Lez

When I ordered the Leather Ring Harness, I was hoping for simplicity and comfort; for my lover to be able to just step into the rig and work me over, bringing me to a satisfying orgasm. Looking at the pictures online, it looked as if the dildo was larger than average in girth and length, and that piqued my curiosity as well.

Out of the box, the harness appeared to deliver what I was hoping for. The material for the belt and straps is made of elastic, and the material in the front, holding the dildo, is made of leather. Both are soft and pliable, and they don’t chafe the skin when the going gets a little rough.

One drawback is that the ability to adjust the harness is limited. If your weight is within a normal range, however, you should have no problem strapping it on and getting down to action. The leg straps are slightly adjustable with two snap sizes for bigger or smaller thighs. Other than that, the stretchiness of the elastic is what makes it adjustable. This could be a major drawback for someone who is either very thin or obese.

As for the dildo, the length was of average proportions, but it was noticeably wider in girth than the average toy. One important note is that the O-ring on the harness is not adjustable at all. Dildos with a smaller diameter than one and five eighths inches will not have a firm foundation, but they can still work adequately.

Giving the Leather Ring Harness a spin was, overall, a pleasurable experience. My lover was able to slip into her rig with minimal fuss or delay. While I gave the dildo that came with the package a fair shot, I felt like I was not going to cum with it, so we switched it out for my favorite, the Luxury dildo. It may have been the shape of the other toy that just didn’t do it for me. It was smooth, and I’m the kind of girl who likes a few gentle curves for extra stimulation to push me over the edge.

It was when we switched out to my favorite dildo that things got interesting. I thought my lover fucked me skillfully with the new harness and my other dildo, and I was able to cum.

Asking her about her own experiences wearing the harness revealed a different story, however. She thought the harness was not secure enough and that the rig let the Luxury slip out of position because it has a lesser girth than the one that comes with the package. Also, the elastic tended to give a bit, which added to the feeling of slipping. If she hadn’t said anything though, I would have never known from feeling her thrust inside me that there were any problems.

I think if we had stayed with the dildo that came with the Leather Ring Harness, it would have stayed in position because of the larger diameter, which fits the larger O-ring more securely.