Radiant gems G-spot harness - harness and dildo set discontinued by Doc Johnson - review by Buzz Man

This is a great beginner harness for couples who want to experiment with role reversals (pegging). It is economical so if you or your partner don't enjoy it, you're not out a lot of money, but it has the flexibility with the vac-u-lock that you can expand your choice of attachments if you do decide you enjoy yourself. While the harness definitely seems to be on the flimsy side, it seems to hold up well, but I would not suggest this to advanced users.

Sil-a-gel is the name of this new material the dildo is made out of, and the harness is clear PVC. The dildo is squishy but has some firmness to it, definitely firm enough for my wife to catch it on the end of the bed and have to move differently to compensate for the added appendage. (She's not used to having a penis.)

It is just a little longer then the average penis length and about a normal girth.

There is definitely an odor to the dildo, a pretty strong plastic, chemical smell. I have tried washing it a few times and have not noticed a huge difference. However, since we did not use it for oral sex it didn't affect the experience at all; you can't smell it when it's not held close to your face.

The harness consists of thin straps of clear PVC that have double D-rings that are used as the tightening device. The PVC sticks to itself a bit so adjustment is a bit tricky; I needed to help my wife a bit, but the stickiness also prevented any slippage once it was adjusted. My wife is a bit on the larger size, not huge but size 12-14 with wide hips, and it fit her with plenty of straps to spare. It is made well for the price; I don't know how the thin straps will hold up over time, but the PVC has some give so I hope a while. Even though the straps are thin they did not cut into her skin at all. (Her analogy is they felt similar to clear bra straps.)

Because of the vac-u-lock, there are a lot of choices of attachments; we have not tried any other ones yet, but it is on our list to do. There was no unwanted movement of the toy on the mount; it stayed where we wanted it and the padded base that holds the vac-u-lock plug didn't hurt during thrusting.

This will fit a wide variety of sizes from small to large; they were not lying in the description when they indicate it will fit up to a 44" waist; I believe it, and it can cinch down to very small, although if your partner is smaller you may need to cut some of the excess straps off so they do not get in the way.

My wife definitely preferred the double strap design to the single (G-string) as it was much more comfortable for her and didn't ride up.

The dildo size for me was just right; having not done this a lot it was a good starting size, not too wide or long but big enough to feel filling and fantastic.

This harness worked great. It was comfortable to wear, relatively easy to put on and adjust. With the application of a little of the included powder, the toy slipped easily onto the mount and it worked in a variety of different positions without incident.

We used a condom so cleanup was really easy. While this is a silicone type of toy which is supposed to be non-porous, we still wanted to be careful. Afterwards, a little bit of toy cleaner and everything was good to go. Currently it is stored in the toy box with the rest of the toys.

If you are in the market for a good starting harness, I think this is a great choice. It has the features to work for many different people without breaking the bank.

We had a lot of fun with this harness. My wife was nervous at first, but afterwards she expressed just how much she enjoyed the reversal of roles. I also enjoyed the break from having to be the one doing the majority of the thrusting.