Good idea for a harness?
I would skip this product and save for a more expense Feeldoe, unless you don't mind spending all your time in the bedroom holding on to it.Published: December 6, 2010
Pros:
cheaper then a Feeldoe, 100% silicone
Cons:
the smaller dildo does not stay in place by itself, does not work well with a harness
The wife and I saw this and thought it would be great for some roll playing in the bedroom. We like to add some gender play to the sexual mix. We have used a harness in the past and thought this would add to both of our pleasure. This was our first double dildo and looked to add it to her favorites. In the past, we would have to take turns playing with each other so we really wanted one toy that filled us both up at the same time. We thought this one was a great idea! Or so we thought.
It works okay by itself. It does not stay in her pussy very well without extra help from one of her hands. It takes away from the gender play when too much of her time is spent on trying to keep it inside of her. With the bulge of the joining of each dildo into one, it does not ride well inside of a dildo harness. It forces the harness to ride too low in the front, pulling the straps in the back.
With that being said, we both like that it is made out of 100% silicone. It makes it easy to clean. It's smooth, firm but flexible, and like all other silicone toys, it feels great. But I don't think we would buy another toy like it. Why not spend the extra money and get a double dildo that does not need a harness to be enjoyed? We picked up a Feeldoe slim to replace this one and love it. Stays in place by itself and comes with a bullet vibe to add to the feelings.
Overall, this is one purchase we are not too happy with. Is it a good quality toy? Yes. Did it meet our needs? Not too well. I would buy other products from Vixen. I just think this product needs some slight changes made to make it a better and more useful toy.
It works okay by itself. It does not stay in her pussy very well without extra help from one of her hands. It takes away from the gender play when too much of her time is spent on trying to keep it inside of her. With the bulge of the joining of each dildo into one, it does not ride well inside of a dildo harness. It forces the harness to ride too low in the front, pulling the straps in the back.
With that being said, we both like that it is made out of 100% silicone. It makes it easy to clean. It's smooth, firm but flexible, and like all other silicone toys, it feels great. But I don't think we would buy another toy like it. Why not spend the extra money and get a double dildo that does not need a harness to be enjoyed? We picked up a Feeldoe slim to replace this one and love it. Stays in place by itself and comes with a bullet vibe to add to the feelings.
Overall, this is one purchase we are not too happy with. Is it a good quality toy? Yes. Did it meet our needs? Not too well. I would buy other products from Vixen. I just think this product needs some slight changes made to make it a better and more useful toy.
Follow-up commentary
3 months after original review
My wife still does not find this dildo to be comfortable to use, either with a harness or with out. With out a harness, she can't keep it in while thrusting. And it is the wrong angle to use with out a harness. It has hardly been used since we opened the packaging. Overall, it is just a bad toy for us.
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Too bad it didn't work out for you. Welcome to Eden!
Welcome to EF! Thanks for the review.
Thanks for the review and welcome
Too bad it didn't work - what harness are you using? Some harnesses are more amenable to "riding low" than others, so your choice can make a big difference.
We have both the Nexus Jr. and Sr. as well as the Feeldoe Slim. Unfortunately, my wife is not able to retain any of them without the use of a harness. As Scott said, the right harness can make a big difference.
It's too bad the Nexus didn't work out for you, but I am glad to hear the Feeldoe is working so well for you.
And...welcome to Eden!
we have the pretty boi harness. I dont know if it would work better with a different harness. We picked this out so we would not need a harness. Does anyone know of a different harness it might work better with?
thank you for the comments.
It looks like that harness' hole is pretty high. One with a lower hole might work better. With that being said the Nexus line really is more a double dildo than a strapless strapon. Usually for anal play though even the true strapless ones still need a harness so this isn't too big a deal.
Great review!
Thanks for the review!
to bad this one didn't work our for u
You should try the Share by Fun Factory, it's much better.
Great review, thanks!
very nice review. thanks....i was thinking of using this for the same reason, but will reconsider. thank!
Great review.
Thank you for the review!
I felt the same way with this toy--my partner had to hold on to it the entire time!! Too awkward. haha The wearer-end might fit some women- but it did not fit inside either one of us very well. Perhaps it depends on body shape/angle of the vagina. Thanks for the review! Glad I wasn't the only one who experienced difficulties!