Bare as you dare harness - dildo harness by Sportsheets - review by She & him

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Great Minimalist Harness

Ultimately, this is a great, basic harness to have in your collection. Its versatility and ease of use, in my opinion, outweigh the detraction of occasional discomfort.
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Pros:
Allows for closeness, fits almost any dildo
Cons:
Can bite at pubic hair/labia, cheap material
Rating by reviewer:
4
extremely useful review
Though this harness may look flimsy, it's one of my favorites - it has everything you need, and nothing you don't. I love its adjustable nature and the ease of use. Although it doesn't feel quite as if you're going in bare, the minimalism of its design allows you to achieve maximum closeness and skin-to-skin sensation with your partner, which is, in my opinion, this harness' biggest draw. It works well with the standard flared-base dildos, but it's also very successful with so-called "harness-less" strap-on dildos such as the Feeldoe or Fun Factory Share, both of which can use a little extra support. This harness provides the support with minimal bulkiness or fuss. It is the closest I have ever come to not actually using a harness while still using one. I have even used it with straight double-ended dildos to give support to the penetrating end of the dildo and prevent my partner from pulling the other end out from inside of me. In this regard, the detachable O-ring has come in handy - depending on the circumference of the dildo, you can easily switch it out for a bigger or smaller one. It should be noted, however, that the alternatively sized O-rings must be purchased separately.

Once the harness is in place, it tends to stay there. I have had no issues with slipping, and any discomfort is easily remedied by tightening or loosening the adjustable straps. However, in certain positions and with certain toys - namely, strap-on or double-ended dildos - it can occasionally pinch my labia or pull on my pubic hair, which needless to say, is pretty painful. I imagine a little water-based lube might help with this problem, though I usually tend to just switch positions or adjust the O-ring on the dildo.

Here are some words of caution: to wash the harness, I find it best to soak it with a little detergent in the sink or a washpan. Part of it once accidentally snuck into a load of laundry I was doing, and it wound up "kissing" another piece of clothing that had Velcro on it, causing the material of the harness to fuzz when the two were pulled apart. This doesn't hamper functionality, but it looks, well, a little frayed. Keep this harness out of the washer and away from Velcro products.
Follow-up commentary
We recently had an issue with this harness pulling itself apart while in the dryer. It was somewhat tricky to put it back together, but that is likely because we were trying to do so in the 'heat of the moment', not because it is inherently difficult to do so.
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My Bare as you dare harness tags
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Can be worn under clothing
    • Pegging
    • Strap-on sex
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
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  • G&L
    G&L  
    Thanks for the review.
  • Nice to Eat you
    Nice to Eat you  
    I want the only thing biting her labia is me, or maybe a unicorn friend!
  • elli
    elli  
    thank you for the review!
  • yarii
    yarii  
    ty
  • spiced
    spiced  
    Thanks for a great review. We have this and use it sometimes when we travel. We're thinking of upgrading to the Aslan Commando, which is supposed to be more comfortable--but for this price, this harness has delivered A LOT of "bang" for the buck.
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