Bend over intermediate kit - harness and dildo set by Tantus - review by Peg

This harness can be used by anyone who is interested in adding some strap-on activities to the sexual repertoire. The harness kit comes with the harness, two dildos and a size specific o-ring for each, and a single speed bullet that provides clitoral stimulation for a female wearer. As the name 'Intermediate' implies, the dildos are for someone who has some experience being penetrated with a dildo and with the added feature of being a vibrating harness, it is more suited for a female wearer but can be worn by a male as well. The harness is pretty simple to get in and out of, as well as adjust; although it might look a little bit confusing when all of the straps are fully extended and getting into for the first time. The adjustments are easy to make for a snug and comfortable fit, and anyone from a beginner to an experienced harness wearer should find this harness dependable.

The harness straps are made of nylon with plastic buckles that are used for making the adjustments to the waist and leg straps, and metal snaps that are used to secure the o-rings in place. The center portion where the dildo is secured and the bullet is placed is made from a velvety fabric. All of the material was comfortable against the wearers skin and another perk of this kit is when you remove the bullet ,the kit can now be used in the shower or any other wet environment. The dildos are from Tantus and are hand-made from the highest quality 100% Ultra-Premium Platinum Silicone. There were no noticeable smells from the dildos and there is no texture on either one. Although the package did not specifically state the name of the dildos, they are from Tantus, and they both appeared to be from the Silk line of dildos that Tantus produces. The dildos were firm but flexible and slid in quite easily.

The harness is a double strap harness and is adjustable according to the manufactures web site to fit up to a 60" waist. The buckles allowed for the straps to move smoothly making adjustments a breeze and loosening for removal can be accomplished using only ones thumb and lifting up against the buckles tab. The harness uses o-rings to secure the dildo in place and is compatible with any flared based dildo provided you have the appropriate sized o-ring. The harness is well made and there were no noticeable loose threads in any of the stitching. The dildos being 100% Ultra- Premium Platinum Silicone are non-porous, Phthalates-free, Hypo-allergenic.

All of the straps are pretty long which will allow the harness to fit a wide variety of sizes and body types. When wearing this harness, you should make sure to pull it tight against you to ensure good control of the dildo when thrusting but not so tight to hinder circulation. Another thing to consider is wearing the harness low enough so the bullet will provide maximum stimulation to the clitoris if being worn by a woman. You might want to consider wearing it around a bit to figure out what feels most comfortable before bending over your beginner. We had no issues with the harness slipping or coming loose during some very vigorous thrusting.

The harness is designed to give the users several dildo options while engaging in strap-on sex. The harness was comfortable to wear when using either one of the dildos, the difference in size between the two of them did not effect the functionality of the harness at all. Changing the dildos can be a little bit challenging if you undo all four snaps at once and the center portion falls off. Trying to get the snaps back through the slots in the material can be a little bit challenging, the slots are a little on the small side. Just take your time if that happens and try not to force them through. The harness does hold the dildos very secure, just make sure the straps are not twisted when placing them around the o-ring and snapping them in place.

The harness is machine washable, although the manufacture did not state cold water and gentle is probably the best setting. Remember to remove the bullet before putting into the wash and you might not want to completely remove the straps from the buckles just so you don't have to try and figure out how to put it all back together again.

The dildos can be boiled, are bleachable in a 10% solution and dishwasher safe and remember to only use water-based lubes with these dildos.

The bullet uses three watch batteries which are supplied.

The kit is packaged in a plastic bag that is folded over with cardboard folded over and stapled closed. The package is not air tight so as with any new toy it's a good idea to clean before using for the first time. There was no part list, identifying specifically if the dildos included were specifically made for this kit or are part of a product line already offered from the manufacturer.

We use the kit for pegging and found the harness worked perfectly. We started out with the smaller of the two dildos in the harness first and found the length just a little bit too short (popped out a few times). After replacing it with the second one which is longer, it worked great providing excellent stimulation. Future use will see the smaller one for warming up with the larger one already in the harness, so there is no lost time having to swap them out.