Purple venus size 3 - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by ashxxx

This harness is good for those who want to enjoy the fun of penetrating their partner when previously unable to (e.g., woman on woman, woman on man). This is the size 3 made by California Exotic Novelties. It is easy enough to use for beginners, though if you plan on using it for anal play and this is your first experience with anal, it may be a little large. I would suggest starting with something smaller (e.g., one, then two, and eventually three fingers). Then movie up to something else before getting to this.

Since the package come with a harness and includes dildo, the dildo doubles as a toy for solo fun. According to the manufacturer (stated on the box), the "probe" is 7" (18 cm).

Note on box:
Always use a water based lubricant with this product for maximum pleasure.

This product is made of silicone, as stated on the product's box. It feels like a slightly harder silicone than you would find on many traditional vibrators. As a result, you are going to want to use a water-based lubricant with this toy. If you are using this toy for anal play and wish to use a silicone lubricant since it is more slippery, you may not want to choose this toy since the silicone lubricant may damage the silicone toy.

The harness works, but it does not have an amazing design. The harness itself is not adjustable, which is a pain. If you do not order the right size, it may be difficult to use without having to reposition it often. It has a hole in the front which you put the dildo through. The dildo has a flat base, which stays on the side of the wearer's body, so it remains in the harness without slipping out.

Be careful when choosing your size with this product. The one I am reviewing is a size 3. According to the manufacturer, it is designed for a size 37" to 45" (94 cm to 114 cm) waist. I am a women's size 12 (American Eagle jeans) and it is a bit too large for me. A size 2 would have been a much better choice. You can make a size larger work, but it becomes harder to manipulate when it's loose on your body. Snug is the way to go.

Imagine putting on a rubber thong (with a 2.5" wide back strap). That's what putting this on is like. So, if it's loose, you can imagine how it would shift around and become harder to manipulate, especially when thrusting. It is easy enough to put the probe in the harness since it just involves putting it through a hole.

One major downside to this harness is that it is not adjustable. It is also not the type of material that can easily be "one size fits all/most", so one must be very careful when choosing a size.

This harness is very easy to take care of.

The washing instructions on the box state:
Wash before and after each use.


It is easy as that. The silicone material makes cleanup as easy as with your silicone vibrators.