It's a hard-core strap on, but solidly made and looks great. For anal virgins, perhaps a less realistic looking (but more realistic to use) option should be considered. I, for one, like a challenge and can't wait to see if I can handle it slightly better the next time around.
Looks good, cock is a good size, powerlock harness means it's secure when Wifey 'straps it on.'
It's certainly a challenge for anal virgins (like me) since it's quite big.