Bend over beginner harness kit - harness and dildo set by Tantus - review by PeachyLeigh

The hubster and I decided to select this as our first harness for some pegging play after shopping around. We thought it would be a good one to try as our first because "beginner" is in the name and reviews and ratings seemed promising. We have tried it a couple of times and just can't seem to get the hang of it.

I am a big girl and this harness can fit a plus size waist but even with several adjustments it just didn't seem to sit right. When it was situated to be usable it was not comfortable for me nor attractive to him. When he tried it on and adjusted it to fit there was a lot of excess on all the straps. If only one partner will wear it or if both are about the same size then I am sure the nylon straps could be easily trimmed, but with us, we had to find a way to "get them out of the way."

We liked the fact that it came with 2 dildo sizes but both seemed a little on the short side. Yea! for non-porous easy to clean and disinfect silicone (be sure to use water based lubes). I also would have preferred a metal ring. The plush velvety padded part is great for looks and does feel good but when lube and bodily fluids are involved its not very easy to clean up. The vibrator is cute but it didn't add much to the experience for us. I still gave it 3 Vrooms because it is a strong lil' guy but when it is in the pocket the vibration gets dampened a lot. He couldn't feel it and although I could feel the vibration it wasn't very strong on the giving or receiving end.

After I finally got all strapped up, lubed up (water based), excited and ready to go the smaller dildo kept pulling free of the harness. The diameter was right for him but the length left us wanting. When we switched and he was a adjusted, strapped up, lubed up (water based), and we were all excited again, we still had issues with the length of the included dildos.