Joque harness - sex toy by SpareParts HardWear - review by Finallypegged

Personally, I find the best use for this harness would obviously be for strap on sex/pegging. This harness would also be ideal for holding in 'strapless' dildos that might prove difficult to keep in place over an extended period of time.

The spandex/nylon mix used in this product conveyed a high quality upon opening the product. This was confirmed in its first use, as my wife found the material overall comfortable against her skin, including the straps that wrap around the thighs and near the vaginal area. The material is pretty thin and could likely be worn under clothing; the occasional buckle being the only thing that might cause a small outline. The material is safe for use in water, an additional plus.

Overall, we were quite impressed with the design and craftsmanship of this product. The design made the strap on harness intuitive to put on, a must for a nervous partner (not to mention to put on in the heat of the moment) and the product was sturdy enough for vigorous use. This particular model has adjustable straps for both the waist and legs that will stretch out to a point (don't recall the actual size limit); there is a larger size that we likely would have opted for (had we known at the time) just for the extra room if needed.

The stretchy O-ring at the heart of this unit will allow for almost any dildo or toy with a base, which makes this harness even more ideal. As a result, though, the ring is not interchangeable.

My wife is not by any means 'large', but she is short and has a few extra pounds. This particular model suits us fine, but she stated she would have likely been more comfortable with just a little bit more room with the leg straps. Had I known at the time of purchase there was in fact a larger one, I'd of purchased that over this model.

That said, this should accommodate slim and average build users with little issue. The larger harness might be the better option if you're on the fence over the matter; I'm sure you could tighten the straps to make up for any excess.

My wife stated that the harness was overall more comfortable to wear that she had anticipated, and enjoyed the soft texture of the components. The harness comes on and takes off like a pair of pants, so it is rather intuitive to wear. Toys fit snugly into the stretch O and take mere moments to install. There's even a small pouch to accommodate any balls that might accompany your dildo choice.

Short of a few minor adjustments, once set and snug, the harness seemed to stay in place throughout our experimentation.

This harness is safe to use in/with water and as a result, light soap and water is all we generally use to keep this harness clean. To store it, once dried, we place the harness folded up back into a small cloth pouch that accompanied the product. Despite sporting a small logo, I find the pouch to be overall quite discrete.

It's been a while since I reviewed, but in my last strap-on-related review, I mentioned how hard I studied and debated the various products out there for pegging as my wife SLOWLY came around to trying the idea out. Months upon months looking over what are admittedly scarce reviews and info for each strap on harness made the job difficult.

I knew I wanted something that required as little effort as possible to use, could accommodate a wide variety of dildos and toys as we figured out what we liked and didn't like, and I knew for certain I wanted to avoid the cheap and downright cheesy looking strap on offerings that are in the sub-$50 category. Uncomfortable looking plastics and alternatives made me even more fearful that if my wife came around on the idea of pegging, she'd only be scared off by the uncomfortable or clunky strap on harness I provided her.

I am VERY pleased I spent the extra money on a harness that both looks good and works well.

An additional idea I've been toying with, but haven't tried out, is inverting the harness and using it to hold a dildo (without a flared base) anally during sex so that it won't fall out while I'm doing the thrusting with my wife in any other position besides reverse cowboy. I flipped the harness inside out and even stepped into it briefly to test the theory, and it seemed sound, but I haven't bothered to bring this to one of our regular sexual endeavors.

This harness was with us during our maiden voyage into the realm of pegging. Both of us were nervous, I, for finally having convinced her to give this a whirl, was terrified this would be my one and only shot (not to mention the fear of wasting $200 on strap-on products for one use!) and honestly there was a bit of fear that she was still judging me for the request; and her, well, her of course because this was something totally out of her comfort zone, being somewhat of a plain Jane when it comes to sexual ideas, sudden asked to put on her own fake penis to literally screw her husband. The nervousness on her end was palpable.

Thankfully, it was quickly apparent that my investment in this harness was paying off. We took it out of the box together and once we sorted all the straps, she was able to slip it on with little effort. She mentioned it wasn't that bad to wear. We quickly mounted the dildo we had purchased along with it (The Nexus Sr.) and had her settle into it.

Getting used to suddenly having something protruding between her legs and the art of thrusting with it that guys take for granted, she fell into the role pretty well. We tried a variety of positions, missionary to doggy and back, and the harness stayed put throughout thrusting and position changes. By the time I had collapsed and recovered, I noticed the thing had stayed in place and perhaps better yet, despite the down time, she wasn't complaining about wearing it. I was hopeful we might have a future doing this.