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Sexy, Simple, Slim, and Multipurpose (I couldn't keep up the alliteration)

Skimpy, barebones harness that serves a variety of purposes very well. It looks sexy but at the price of possible chafing by its nylon straps (unless it's loose). Your dildo can also flop over (unless it's very tight). Still, its sheer usefulness makes us want to keep it even as we get better harnesses.
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Pros:
Multipurpose
Portable, easily hidden
Looks sexy
Easily Adjustable
Cons:
Uncomfortable
Dildos may not stay in place
Rating by reviewer:
4
extremely useful review
This was our first harness and served its purpose well; it's easily adjustable to many different sizes, though the metal ring is sorta one-size-fits-all. We've managed to squeeze all different dildos through it and, for the most part, they stayed in place just by keeping the straps tight. The nylon straps aren't the most comfortable in the world and have a very utilitarian feel to them. The skimpy nature of the harness makes it look sexy and, if you're doing gender play, definitely helps with the illusion. It's easy to wear underwear or panties over or under the harness, depending on the wearer's sex.

The best feature is definitely that this harness can be used in pretty much any way imaginable. Male wearer wants a dildo to please his lover? Check. Man using it for double penetration of his partner, with his penis just under the O-ring? Check. Female user wants to fuck her woman or peg her man? Or penetrate one partner while another penetrates the wearer from behind? Or wants to do gender play, with underwear over the harness? Or needs the harness to be easily concealable or fit in her pocket? Check, check, check, and check. This harness has no limitations on what it can do simply because of its simplicity.

However, its simplicity is also its greatest fault. It is definitely mildly uncomfortable for long periods of time, especially on the clit, between the folds of the vulva, or in the buttcrack (the first two can be alleviated by moving the bottom strap to one side, the other by loosening it). Also, the fact that there is no backing behind the O-ring means that larger, heavier dildos may not stay upright without serious pressure from the wearer's pubic bone. Dildos that are curved and have a base thinner than 1.5" (the width of the o-ring) may flop over rather than stand up. If the dildo is wider than 1.5", you're out of luck (unless it's just the head - you might be able to squeeze it through). The metal can be a little uncomfortable, especially if you get rough ;)

Eventually, you'll want something more comfortable and that will hold heavier dildos better. But for beginners and enthusiasts alike, this is your best bet for a quick, cheap, and effective option for all your strap-on needs.

Apparently, this is also the strap-on of choice for the Feeldoe, Share, Nexis, Penetrix, and other "strapless" dildos (that every reviewer says needs strap-ons). However, we don't have one yet. Maybe that's something Edenfantasys can help us out with. Once we have one, we'll review (and probably video review) the effectiveness of this harness to keep strapless dildos in line.
Experience
So many memories of this being worn by me and used on me. . . where to begin? It works great for double penetration; it's adjustable so you can easily change the distance between the penis and dildo to match the anatomy of whoever you're with and it can be used in many positions. It's great for pegging, but better for the receiver than wearer because after not too long, the harness will get a bit uncomfortable. Depending on how tight your partner is, the dildo might push against your pubic bone the whole time. Its slimness definitely helps aid various fantasies of gender play, whether going for a full gender swap, or simply coping with the sudden endowment of your normally female partner; it gives the female wearer a nice naughty feeling, especially if she's new to strap-on play.
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My Bare as you dare harness tags
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Gender play
    • Pegging
    • Strap-on sex
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Good for anal
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  • susansmith2012
    susansmith2012  
    thanks for the review!
  • GONE!
    GONE!  
    Thanks for the review! This makes me want this one even more.
  • Caus
    Caus  
    Thanks for the review!
  • sugar&spikes
    sugar&spikes  
    thanks for the review!
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