Leather ring harness - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by roe6989

I first want to say, "What a great product!" This is my first strap-on, but I was very happy with the product being able to accommodate a large frame. I am a plus size woman and those like me out there understand the frustration of not being able to fit into the "one size fits most" products. It was a bit tight, but we were very happy that we did not have to alter it in order for it to be comfortable.


The waist band is adjustable. It is very stretchy and will accommodate many sizes. I think it will fit comfortably on anyone from 100 pounds to 350 pounds. There are two straps that go from the front of the harness to the back of the harness on either side of the hip. These straps are elastic as well and connect to the harness via metal buckles. They come off and can be made tighter due to a second section of snaps. The straps are very sturdy and comfortable. The material stretched, but did not give any sign of ripping or tearing of any kind. I think this is because there is no stitching. Everything is held together with metal buckles. Thread can be very fragile. Connecting the fabric with metal helped reduce the risk of the seams ripping.


The front of the harness is leather and features a steel o-ring. The box instructs that the leather be cleaned with leather cleaner. I was very pleased to have a steel o-ring because I often break more fragile materials. The harness accommodates many attachments of all sizes. Edenfantasys provides a lot of great attachments for harnesses. The attachments are very easy to use. Attachments usually have a base to them that will prevent them from simply falling out of the harness. You slip the toy through the leather opening with the o-ring around it and it is ready to use.


The dildo that comes with this harness is rubber, which only gets a 3 on the materials safety scale. Rubber is porous, so remember to use lubes that are compatible with rubber for ultimate pleasure and comfort such as silicone-based and water-based lubes. Oil-based lubes should be avoided. Be sure to store it in a cool, dry place. Be sure not to share it unless you use a condom. Remember, safety first. Using a condom will also make the material last longer. It is also important to use a condom for anal penetration and use a different condom if you want to switch to vaginal penetration to avoid the transference of fecal matter. This could cause nasty infections due to the delicacy of the vagina.


The dildo attachment is 6'', with a 1 5/8" diameter, and a 5 1/4" circumference. The dildo gets thinner towards the end and goes to a point. The attachment dildo is black, smooth, soft, and waterproof. It is easy to insert, and provided a great deal of pleasure. I think it is a perfect size, but it is a bit thick so if you are using it for anal it may be a good idea to make sure you warm up and relax your sphincter first. There are a lot of great products on the site that can help with that. There are anal beads, plugs, and training kits. Again, remember to use condoms to prevent the spread of fecal matter.


This is a great product for both men and women of all sexual orientations. For the men out there you can be straight and still enjoy anal pleasure. The anus and the rectum have plenty of nerve endings, which produce a great deal of pleasure. This product can be worn by a man in order to provide double penetration for a woman. Or if the man has already ejaculated and his partner is not finished the man could strap one on for some fun. Men are more easily fatigued in the bedroom than women. A woman can have multiple orgasms and still want more. After a man ejaculates there is a period where he cannot get hard again. This product provides a great solution for situations such as these.


This harness came in a box with a plastic bag over the harness and the dildo. The box features a naked woman wearing the harness. I think the picture should have been more elegant. If I would have saw this box in a store I would have walked right past it. The woman on the front is just standing there with the harness on. I think it is not very appealing. The box does not mention if it is recyclable. There are no instructions other than an instruction to clean the leather with leather cleaner.

I had such a good time with this product. My husband attached a g-spot harness attachment and provided double penetration. The orgasm I received was one of the most satisfying orgasms I have ever experienced. I would definitely recommend it for others.