Bend over beginner harness kit - dildo harness by Tantus - review by Curiously Aroused

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Time to bend over boys!!

If you are looking for a great experience this product is a great place to start at a great price. All of the items are high quality and will help you have a great first experience with this.
Published:
Pros:
Quality product, pleases man and woman, gives you a new perspective.
Cons:
Better instructions with product.
Rating by reviewer:
5
useful review
The idea of penetrating your man may seem a little weird, but once you get comfortable with the idea, this is the kit to start with. It comes with everything you will need to experiment a little and find out if you will enjoy this type of experience without a huge investment (you could spend well over $100 if you bought everything separately). I love the fact that the straps go around your legs which is much more comfortable than a thong style harness; it also allows your vaginal area to be open for penetration or play without taking the harness off. You should try the harness on before hand so that you can adjust it and cut the straps if you wish. When adjusting the harness make sure it isn't too tight as this will cut into your legs and push the vibrator against your clitoris too hard (believe me, I ended up with a bruise right above my clitoris). You do need to play around with this harness some to make sure that it is placed in the right position (which could be lower or higher depending one the person).

When I first took this toy out of the package I was amazed at the quality of the different pieces. The bend over harness kit is very sturdy and I love that it comes with an extra o-ring in a different size so you can buy other dildos to use with the harness. The dildos are extremely smooth and soft with just enough flimsiness to make it comfortable for the guy. They are made of silicone so you should use water based lube with this toy for safety purposes; I recommend Liquid Silk's Maximus lube which is perfect for anal sex and is bio-static so it helps prevent the spread of bacteria and yucky stuff like that (which is a big concern with anal sex). The mini-vibe is great (especially since it comes with the batteries) and really packs a punch for being so small. It is also waterproof so you can take it to the bathtub or shower with you.

Throughout your experience with this, try to remain relaxed and open with communication (which is extremely important in this situation). You will probably have to get creative with positions though. I first attempted to have sex with my man he was lying on his back which is an extremely intimate position but it does make it difficult; you can't really see what you are doing so I kept slipping out without knowing it. One thing you can do to fix this is to prop him up with a pillow or two under his lower back or use a sex sling if he's up for it. This position is great for starting out but if it's not working I would switch to him on all fours and you behind him. One word of advice though, start off slow and work him up to using a dildo. Start by using one finger and then two; after that he should be ready for the smaller dildo. It's all about using lots of lube and taking things slow so you don't injure him.
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  • Naughty Student
    Naughty Student  
    Do fluids easily wash off from this set? Have tried cleaning it?

    Thanks for the review!
  • ToyingCouple
    ToyingCouple  
    This wonderful set has caught our eyes for some time now. The harness just looks so comfortable and the two sizes of dildos make for beginner and advanced fun. Does it hold pretty tight during thrusting? Our current harness tends to be a little sloppy.....
  • Juliettia
    Juliettia  
    I'm not sure if I could talk my husband into letting me play with him in this fashion, but perhaps if I get my courage up I will have to buy this. You sold me on the fact it was not a thong style harness.
  • Miss Cinnamon
    Miss Cinnamon  
    How easy were the dildos to clean? Did you use them with condoms or without? Thanks for the review.
  • Curiously Aroused
    Curiously Aroused  
    The harness itself is really easy to clean, basically just use mild soap and warm water and lay out to dry. With the dildos you just scrub them up with some hand soap and warm water then set out to dry; they are extremely easy to clean. I did not use condoms with the dildos but as long as you clean them well then they will be fine. The harness does hold the dildo in very tight with the included o-ring. To Juliettia, you should slowly start to turn your husband on to the idea of pegging. This is how I did it: start off by rubbing his perinium during oral play (make sure you use lube) then little by little work your finger down towards his anus, eventually you can massage the outside of the anal opening and (with lots of lube) start to slide a finger in, eventually he will (hopefully) let you massage his prostate. After this he will be begging you to start pegging him.
  • So into it
    So into it  
    I am sort of the opposite of Juliettia. A guy with some interest (fantasy) in pegging and no idea how to bring it up with the girlfriend. From a guys perspective though I think it would be easier if you were a girl asking, I mean what guy doesn't want to do anything for their gal? As it stands for me I have the double problem of it being misconceived as A) our sex life isn't good enough unless... and b) I still perceive a stigma around guys and anything anal (i.e. it isn't as hetero as normal sex). My gf wouldn't even have to war me up. Just ask and I'd be game Winking
  • Shellz31
    Shellz31  
    I'm yet to try a harness.. Im rather keen on this one for the look of it and ya can never go wrong with purple! Thanks for the review.
  • lemony
    lemony  
    Thanks for the review
  • Naughtyboy
    Naughtyboy  
    very useful review!
  • tickle me pink
    tickle me pink  
    Great review!
  • Starkiller87
    Starkiller87  
    My guy is really interested in try something like this so Ive been looking around for one thatll be comfortable for the both of us. Your review was very helpful to me.
  • ILikeShinyThings
    ILikeShinyThings  
    Thanks for sharing!
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