Sedeux flare - dildo by Sportsheets - review by Safo Garcia

I really like this relatively small dildo because, while my lover is a size queen who’s always on the lookout for the next big thing, I prefer more subtlety in the dildos she uses on me. Its modest size is just right and its soft curve fits me like a glove. When she fucked me with it, holding it in her hand, she moved it in circles as well as in and out - a range of movement that I’m not so into with a larger, harder, more intense dildo. It’s slightly curved upper shaft and delicately bulging head felt divine inside my cunt and stimulated those inner pleasure spots, letting me build up to a great vaginal orgasm. I think I even ejaculated a little.

Its small size means that it’s also usable for backdoor entry. An intermediate anal player who wants to move up from two fingers or small to medium plugs will find it useful in this respect. It also fits nicely in the mouth without tempting your gag reflex too much, so that’s a plus if you’re into giving or receiving blowjobs. It's probably too small for my big-bodied self and voluptuous lover to use in a regular harness (big asses and stomachs do better with longer dildos), but I do think it would be just the right size for use in my thigh harness because when my lover wants to sit on my thigh, other dildos are too long for that position. I haven't tried it with the thigh harness yet, but feel free to ask me about it in a couple of weeks.

It’s on the softer end of the firmness spectrum, which I also like, and is a beautiful opalescent red color, with visible swirls. It’s non - or semi - realistic, which I also like.

My only complaint is that mine appeared to have a small defect at the head: a little indentation that marks where it came out of the mold. I fear that I’ll have to pay extra special attention when cleaning it, so as to not leave any dried fluid in the small recession. The edges of the flared base were also not completely smoothed down after it was removed from the mold. It is 100% silicone, but very close inspection reveals that it’s not quite as high-quality as the silicone used by Tantus, Feeldoe, and other manufacturers of premium silicone. That takes a star off. Of course, if you boil it or douse it in a 10% bleach solution and rinse it completely afterwards by immersing it in water, that shouldn’t be a problem. Because it is silicone, it can be safely shared by multiple people as well as used in both asses and pussies, as long as you disinfect it between uses.

Of course, because it’s silicone, you should only use water-based lube with it and avoid any silicone lube. Some people claim they can safely use silicone lube with hard, premium silicone toys, but I wouldn’t risk it with this one because it’s not hard and doesn’t seem to be premium, medical-grade silicone. If you must experiment, I’d try it out on the bottom of the flared based, so that if it becomes permanently sticky, you might still be able to use it. [Editor's Note: Do NOT use silicone toys with silicone lube]

Recently, while having strap-on sex with my lover sitting on top of me, she complained that the dildo we were using was too long, and poked her when she ground herself against me. Even though the Sedeux is smaller than what she normally craves, I popped it into my harness because I thought something shorter might enable her to really get her grind on. Indeed, it worked; this relatively small dildo provided the perfect solution for girl-on-top sex, so I wish I could give it another star. Sometimes smaller really is better!