Great for gender queer couples
Buy this if you've got a lot of kinks for trans play, fem domination, double penetration, etc. If you aren't into any of those things, you might be a little bored.Published: March 13, 2009
Pros:
Great for trans couples and solo play, easy to use, penis end feels great on receiving partner.
Cons:
Heavy, needs a harness, not that great for female stimulation.
My partner and I have always had fluid gender roles and orientations; this toy helped me realize a fantasy I've always had, to become my boyfriend's 'boyfriend' for a night. Upon first receiving the toy, I tried it on right away. I had also bought a harness with it - be warned, the feeldoe is heavy and best used with a harness. We use this one.
I regret that the toy isn't very realistic by the porn industry's standards. It is bright purple after all. The feel is rubbery but pretty unyielding; this is not a soft toy. It smells slightly of silicone, but I think the strength of that smell has faded with every wash. My partner can speak more about it's taste, since he's the one going down on me when I wear it. It's kind of big for him to take it all the way into his mouth, but he can get maybe half way down without choking. But still, it was thrilling to accidentally knock my new cock against the bathroom counter and feel a jolt of pleasure at the contact. I was able to masturbate to orgasm the way men do, and this alone was worth it. It was amazing to just lie with my legs closed, my cock standing up out of my jeans, and with a few minutes of pulling and tilting I came.
My partner enjoys taking this toy in the ass, but it is a little big. One trick we've learned is that if he is too aroused, he will tense up and things will be painful. He loves to bounce on my hips and watch me thrust up into him, and says it feels like the real thing. I'm not allowed to give him the reach around, however, as that tenses him up and makes things painful. Oh well. It feels good for me, but not amazing - rankly the ridges don't do that much for me. Also, the little bullet vibe takes batteries that are hard to find and dies out easily. I think this toy really works for me because it fulfills a transgender element in our sex lives that is hard to work in otherwise.
Also note: this type of silicone can attract a lot of dust. Be sure to clean it, and use water based lube (lots of it, if intended for anal!!)
Edited for clarity; thank you to those of you who have given me feedback!
I regret that the toy isn't very realistic by the porn industry's standards. It is bright purple after all. The feel is rubbery but pretty unyielding; this is not a soft toy. It smells slightly of silicone, but I think the strength of that smell has faded with every wash. My partner can speak more about it's taste, since he's the one going down on me when I wear it. It's kind of big for him to take it all the way into his mouth, but he can get maybe half way down without choking. But still, it was thrilling to accidentally knock my new cock against the bathroom counter and feel a jolt of pleasure at the contact. I was able to masturbate to orgasm the way men do, and this alone was worth it. It was amazing to just lie with my legs closed, my cock standing up out of my jeans, and with a few minutes of pulling and tilting I came.
My partner enjoys taking this toy in the ass, but it is a little big. One trick we've learned is that if he is too aroused, he will tense up and things will be painful. He loves to bounce on my hips and watch me thrust up into him, and says it feels like the real thing. I'm not allowed to give him the reach around, however, as that tenses him up and makes things painful. Oh well. It feels good for me, but not amazing - rankly the ridges don't do that much for me. Also, the little bullet vibe takes batteries that are hard to find and dies out easily. I think this toy really works for me because it fulfills a transgender element in our sex lives that is hard to work in otherwise.
Also note: this type of silicone can attract a lot of dust. Be sure to clean it, and use water based lube (lots of it, if intended for anal!!)
Edited for clarity; thank you to those of you who have given me feedback!
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Feeldoe and Joque?
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Hey,
just wondering if anyone has the feeldoe used with the sparepants joque harness? and if so any review/information you can offer?
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REALdoe?
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My boyfriend and I are familiar with, and huge fans of, the Feeldoe line of double-ended strapless strapon dildoes. Now I have learned through feeldoe.com that another product exists: the Realdoe. It's a Feeldoe in realistic skintone, in the same dimensions as the Feeldoe Violet but a little softer. Is this also made by Tantus, or does anyone know who does manufacture it of NOT Tantus? I'd love to get my hands on it. A purple cock is a great thing to have, but to have a realistic-looking penis between my legs with no straps to hold it in place... That would be this pegger's dream come true. Any help is appreciated! Thanks! ~Pixie
This image is courtesy of Amazon , but I'm not sure of the safety of ordering a sex toy there....
Also, thanks for enduring my re-post, I believe the original post ended up in the wrong place, or else "relating" to the wrong things. Thanks! (h) -
Thanks for asking. We actually do have the RealDoe on order. I'm looking forward to it too as the realistic color and such looks like a lot of fun.
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Quote: Thanks for asking. We actually do have the RealDoe on order. I'm looking forward to it too as the realistic color and such looks like a lot of fun.Ooh, exciting!
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Feeldoe compatable harness
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forkehHi there, I'm interested in buying this pretty little toy, but I know my vaginal muscles aren't quite up to par to hold this in.
So my question is, is it compatable with the Jaguar harness? It's what I have and I really don't want to buy another to accommodate such an expensive dildo.
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Yes it is compatable with a Jaguar harness.
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On a side note - vaginal muscles do not have to be as "up to par" as you might think to use this. Having used this on the bulb/holding end myself, I've only ever had it fall out if things get rough, and I have never done a kegel exercise in my life and I know my vagina is larger than most to boot.
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Feeldoe
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ElfDo I need a harness for a Feeldoe dildo? -
EF ExpertQuote: Do I need a harness for a Feeldoe dildo?Feeldoe dildos are generally considered harness-free strap-ons, but you have to have strong vaginal muscles to keep with bulb end inside the vagina and it's really a matter of how tight you can squeeze around the bulb.If your muscles are not strong enough we recommend to use a harness to hold it in place. -
You don't *need* a harness with any of the double ended dildos, as they are designed to be kept in place by the wearer's kegel muscles. However, if you would like it to be more secure, or you are going to be very rough with it, Outlaw Leather makes all their harness with two holes, do it'll fit in perfectly. I have the Syd, and love it :)
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Try to explain more about the feel, structure, and smell?
is it possible to edit my review?
Did you use it with a harness? If so, which one.
I am confused...yes you can edit your review...
How do you clean this? Can it be boiled? When sharing, do you recommend condoms?
Is the silicone slick? It looks like it has a high gloss finish... so just curious if it's matte or slippery.
Thank you for the review