Not for anal beginners

All and all it's an ok dildo, if you don't plan to actually wear it like it was intended. The vibrating bullet also left much to be desired. It may be a better idea to skip this toy and just buy a regular dildo to avoid the limitations of this toy. Defiantly girthy and not for anal beginners or those who prefer slim toys.
Published:
Pros:
Good for use as a "regular" dildo
Cons:
heavy, too thick, somewhat stiff, bullet is too weak and hard to remove
Rating by reviewer:
2
useful review
My ex and I bought this toy a few years ago to spice things up. He wanted to experiment with anal sex with a strap on but wanted something that would provide me with some pleasure as well. After some research we found this, and figured it would be the best of both worlds. I'm also a larger girl, so since this is in essence a "strapless strap on", I didn't have to worry about it being too small to fit me comfortably.

I was totally shocked at how big this thing was when I got it in the mail. I was hesitant to even have the toy used on me non-anally because of the girth, and I advised my partner that we may want to order something smaller and work our way up to this bad boy. He decided against that however, so armed with lots of lube we embarked on what is to say... the least memorable night.

First of all, the toy is not only big length and girth wise, but it's heavy. After inserting the bulb for me and wearing it, I felt like I had to keep my hand below it so it wouldn't "fall out" while I was wearing it. Another thing I didn't like was the fact that when I was wearing it, the angle for "entry" on my partner was weird. It hung down way too low for doggy style and doing anal in missionary was impossible as well. Eventually we decided against me wearing it and decided to use it as a dildo. Another mistake. Even with lots of lube and going gently, the dildo still "stretched" my partner uncomfortably wide. Needless to say he was sitting down a lot slower for about a week. Eventually we found out that there was a slim version of this dildo, which we ordered and were able to use with better success.

Another downside to this toy was the vibrating bullet. While the vibrations were ok while wearing it, they weren't strong enough to provide any real pleasure. Also, getting the bullet out to clean the toy was nearly impossible. The material created some sort of a "vacuum" effect. We solved this problem by putting a drop of lube in the hole before inserting it.

Even though it didn't work the way it was originally intended, the dildo itself did feel good being used on me. The cold sensation when it was first inserted took some getting used to, and it was a little on the firm side, but other than that it was fun to use!
Follow-up commentary
Bulky and hard to use as intended. A friend of mine suggested wearing this with tight fitting men's underwear and having it poke out of the hole or cutting one myself. Haven't tried it yet but seems like way too much work and prefer other toys for pegging.
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My Feeldoe violet tags
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Anyone
    • Can be worn during intercourse
    • Strap-on sex
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Bath / shower
    • Bedroom / on a bed
    • Campus/roommate living
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • G-spot
    • Genitals
    • Mutual stimulation
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Comments
  • Jimbo Jones
    Jimbo Jones  
    Sorry this didn't go well for your ex. This was the original "strapless strap-on", but it certainly is a bit large for an anal beginner, and even the strongest kegel muscles are going to have a difficult time overcoming some ones else's rectal muscles. This makes using it for pegging without a harness rather difficult. Thanks for the review.
  • Hallmar82
    Hallmar82  
    I'm glad you found the Slim to be much better. More often than not, people prefer to use the Violet with a harness to keep it put.
  • ScottA
    ScottA  
    I find that Feeldoes do need harnesses to be used anally, though rumor has it they work fine for F/F vaginal use.

    I'm happier with my Share than the Feeldoe for pegging - it's softer and more forgiving.
  • AnotherPrettyFace
    AnotherPrettyFace  
    it seems cool in theory, but I have always wondered how it would work. It just doesn't make practical sense in my head.
  • LuciFaery
    LuciFaery  
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  • Nacht Stern
    Nacht Stern  
    Thank you for the information!
  • smlove
    smlove  
    When my wife first introduced me to it, we went out and bought boy underwear with the Y flap. that helps keep it in on your end, and is really cute if you like the bit of gender play.
    The bit of lube with the bullet is a great idea!
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