Sharing is Caring!
Ever wanted to experience what a guy does when he gets a blowjob or handjob? With the Share, you can! Because of the shape, every motion is transferred through the shaft and stimulates my clit and g spot. While this may not be the perfect strapless strap on harness for everyone, for me, it is everything I ever wanted! I love that I can come from a blowjob or jacking off, and for now, my penis envy is satisfied.Published: January 13, 2012
Pros:
silicone, allows you to experience the sensations of a blowjob, handjob, or sex through this toy!
Cons:
heavy, may be too girthy for some, may require a harness
This epic piece of silicone is made by Germany's Fun Factory, a brand I am thoroughly in love with. Given that they invented the Share, I think I may be forced to bear their theoretical children, or an anthropomorphic personification of the company's children. *ahem* What I'm trying to say, is this is a truly awesome product.
The Share by Fun Factory is a strapless strap on, but is also compatible for some O ring harnesses. (I have seen the Bare As You Dare as well as the Joque harness being recommended.) It is basically a sideways 'L' shape, with the shorter leg of the 'L' being the insertable portion. You use your PC muscles to hold the insertable part of the Share inside your vagina, and voila! Instant penis.
This toy measures 9 inches overall, with the insertable length for the 'giver' being 4.25 inches, and the insertable length for the receiver being 6.25 inches. For the giver, the diameter is 1.75 inches, and the receiver's diameter is 1.875 inches. This may be too girthy for someone who is new to strap on play, or for those who aren't a fan of larger toys. The Share is also a fairly heavy toy, weighing in at 1.5 pounds. So, unless you have fairly strong kegels, you may have issues holding it in without the assistance of a strap on harness. The weight will also cause the shaft to droop a little. No rampant cocks here, sorry!
The shape is semi-realistic, as the toy has a stylized glans, but no other anatomical landmarks. The shaft is completely smooth, with no veins or ridges, and no noticeable seam. The shaft flares towards the base, and is perfect for the wearer to rub their clit against for some extra stimulation. The insertable portion of the Share is shaped like a kidney bean, and the curve nestles against my g spot beautifully.
The Share is made out of 100% silicone, and is the usual high quality stuff from Fun Factory. It has a little bit of drag to it, so you'll want to use some lube. Water based only, though, as silicone lube can had adverse effects on silicone toys, and this dildo is far too epic to have a Lube Incident and get all melty. Cleanup is the usual options for a silicone toy: washing it with antibacterial soap and water or putting it through the dishwasher for normal cleaning or wiping it down with a 10% bleach solution or boiling it to completely sterilize it!
The Share by Fun Factory is a strapless strap on, but is also compatible for some O ring harnesses. (I have seen the Bare As You Dare as well as the Joque harness being recommended.) It is basically a sideways 'L' shape, with the shorter leg of the 'L' being the insertable portion. You use your PC muscles to hold the insertable part of the Share inside your vagina, and voila! Instant penis.
This toy measures 9 inches overall, with the insertable length for the 'giver' being 4.25 inches, and the insertable length for the receiver being 6.25 inches. For the giver, the diameter is 1.75 inches, and the receiver's diameter is 1.875 inches. This may be too girthy for someone who is new to strap on play, or for those who aren't a fan of larger toys. The Share is also a fairly heavy toy, weighing in at 1.5 pounds. So, unless you have fairly strong kegels, you may have issues holding it in without the assistance of a strap on harness. The weight will also cause the shaft to droop a little. No rampant cocks here, sorry!
The shape is semi-realistic, as the toy has a stylized glans, but no other anatomical landmarks. The shaft is completely smooth, with no veins or ridges, and no noticeable seam. The shaft flares towards the base, and is perfect for the wearer to rub their clit against for some extra stimulation. The insertable portion of the Share is shaped like a kidney bean, and the curve nestles against my g spot beautifully.
The Share is made out of 100% silicone, and is the usual high quality stuff from Fun Factory. It has a little bit of drag to it, so you'll want to use some lube. Water based only, though, as silicone lube can had adverse effects on silicone toys, and this dildo is far too epic to have a Lube Incident and get all melty. Cleanup is the usual options for a silicone toy: washing it with antibacterial soap and water or putting it through the dishwasher for normal cleaning or wiping it down with a 10% bleach solution or boiling it to completely sterilize it!
Experience
Blowjobs with the Share are amazing. Because this toy is inside me, and the curve to the 'bean' nestles right up against my g spot, not only do I feel every movement my lovers make as they lick and suck and run their hands along the shaft, but it helps get me off as well! While I haven't orgasmed from just being given head alone, I think it would be possible, were the oral session to last longer, or if my partner was also using their hands a fair bit. While the Share is still too large for my boyfriend to be comfortable with my using it on him anally, I am definitely looking forward to the day when I can fuck him with my pretty black silicone cock!
Jacking off is *awesome*. I can have multiple g spot orgasms from playing with my cock, and while the Share is no Pure Wand, it does work well. I don't have to have my wrist at a weird angle, like you sometimes do with using a toy or fingering yourself, which means I can wank longer without getting cramps in my wrist, yay! You can vary the angle of the bulb inside you to adjust how much pressure you want on your g spot, and also vary the way you are stroking the shaft. I've found that using my middle and ring to press the tip of the shaft against my palm while using a short up and down stroke gives this awesome 'popping' sensation that transfers beautifully internally. It feels like having fingers tapping against my g spot, and if I do it just right, I can grind against the base of the shaft and stimulate my clit at the same time. So. Much. Win.
Jacking off is *awesome*. I can have multiple g spot orgasms from playing with my cock, and while the Share is no Pure Wand, it does work well. I don't have to have my wrist at a weird angle, like you sometimes do with using a toy or fingering yourself, which means I can wank longer without getting cramps in my wrist, yay! You can vary the angle of the bulb inside you to adjust how much pressure you want on your g spot, and also vary the way you are stroking the shaft. I've found that using my middle and ring to press the tip of the shaft against my palm while using a short up and down stroke gives this awesome 'popping' sensation that transfers beautifully internally. It feels like having fingers tapping against my g spot, and if I do it just right, I can grind against the base of the shaft and stimulate my clit at the same time. So. Much. Win.
Follow-up commentary
1 month after original review
My boyfriend and I used this last night, and I am still utterly in love at how well the sensations translate from the silicone to my pussy. *purrs* This was definitely worth investing in, and I cannot wait to use it for pegging!
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(Eden Advanced reviewer) "Love, I'd never hurt you/But I'll grind against your bones until our marrows mix/I will eat you slowly." -Ludo, 'The Horror of our Love'
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can you get off while using this?
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I would really love to be using this with my partner, at got off at the same time..
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without too much effort on my part?
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It really depends on your anatomy and what gets you off.
If it can hit your g-spot, that'll do something, but it varies person-to-person how much. It might hit your clitoris, but again depends on how the toy fits your body - and if you can get off from that kind of stimulation.
Personally, I don't rely on it to get me "all the way" all by itself - because I can't orgasm so far with just g-spot and clitoral touching. Some people certainly can, it just depends. :)
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Strapless dildos
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Are strapless dildos hard to use for beginners?
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I've never tried one myself, but I've heard they have a bit of a learning curve and you need strong kegels to use them properly. I've also heard, however, that they will work with a harness if you need extra stability.
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It really seems like they're hard to use period. I don't know of anyone who regularly uses them without a harness (though I'd love to hear from someone who does).
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Share vs. Feeldoe
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forkehHow do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?
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Quote: How do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?They both work well in a harness. Share is a little bouncier and thicker and jucier and Feeldoe is much firmer. I find them both easy to use with no harness, although I find Nexus JR the easiest to retain. Out of all the double dildoes I have tried (all 4 Feeldoes, both Shares, Tango, and the three Nexus sizes, I find Tango the hardest to hold with my muscles followed by Nexus Maximus (weighs a ton) and Share XL (weighs like a brick and is floppy) . I'm a driver. It matters a bit less if you are a pillow princess.
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I have the Feeldoe(slim) and the Tango and have used the Share. I agree with Kuuipogal. But for me they all pop out just prior to orgasm despite strong Kegels but the "look" w/o a harness is awesome.
I am a hard and vigorous driver so a harness for me has been the solution. I have the Aslan Jaguar and the Spare Parts both super.
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Strap-onless strap-ons
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I love when my girlfriend ties me down and dominates me but we haven't given much thought to strap-ons. Are the strapless ones as good as the strap-ons?
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A starp-on harness is a good initial investment because it can be used with a variety of toys including strapless ones (if desired).
The strapless ones seem to be pretty good, though depending on who you talk to. The Share line and the feeldoe line seem to get good marks from most and present the best chance that they can be used completely without a harness. The Nexus line would probably be somewhat more difficult for the giver to hold inside without a harness. I think the harness option might be better for versatility, but the Share might represent an excellent choice for you and your girlfriend as well. -
Quote: I love when my girlfriend ties me down and dominates me but we haven't given much thought to strap-ons. Are the strapless ones as good as the strap-ons?Personally, I would say no... just because they're harder to navigate. Certainly possible, and you can add a harness to get more stability while keeping the internal stimulation. There are also some harnesses that will hold a cock inside the wearer as well, so you have more options.
I'd agree with Jimbo that either the Share or Feeldoe is your best bet for doubles like this, the Nexus just doesn't cut it.
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