Sharing is caring, right?
Seconds later, I found myself riding away (back arched, gasping for breath) into a new kind of sex territory. The sensations it produced were amazing. It didn't feel too big like I had originally anticipated. Solid enough to hit the right spots but soft and bendable enough to not cause any pain. Check plus.Published: September 5, 2008
Pros:
100% silicone, easy to clean, easy to enjoy
Cons:
didn't stay put, too big for some people
To tell you the truth, I was incredibly nervous when my girlfriend pulled this out of her toy box. The size was intimidating, not to mention it was my first time using any sort of sex toy. She assured me it was one of her favorites (even when used just by herself), and then handed it to me to inspect further. It was heavier than I thought it would be, but it was a deliciously smooth silicone, and of course, it was purple, so I agreed to give it a try.
My girlfriend generously applied a water based lubricant on both ends (water based lube won't deteriorate the silicone in the toy) and took the bulb end for herself, leaving me to straddle her and the longer end of the dildo. I timidly lowered myself down and found my balance. Seconds later, I found myself riding away (back arched, gasping for breath) into a new kind of sex territory. The sensations it produced were amazing. It didn't feel too big like I had originally anticipated. Solid enough to hit the right spots but soft and bendable enough to not cause any pain. Check plus.
The only problem I found with the Share dildo was that it kept slipping out of me, which made the whole process more difficult than I'd like. Maybe it was the positioning, maybe it was the amount of lubrication, maybe it could have been something else. The possibilities are endless. Probably an operator's error. Not your problem necessarily. In any case, it was fun to share for a change. Because sharing is caring, right?
Cleaning is ridiculously easy, easy, easy. Just use antibacterial soap and water, or if you want it to be completely sterile, you can boil it for about five minutes.
Hope this was any bit of helpful. Have fun.
My girlfriend generously applied a water based lubricant on both ends (water based lube won't deteriorate the silicone in the toy) and took the bulb end for herself, leaving me to straddle her and the longer end of the dildo. I timidly lowered myself down and found my balance. Seconds later, I found myself riding away (back arched, gasping for breath) into a new kind of sex territory. The sensations it produced were amazing. It didn't feel too big like I had originally anticipated. Solid enough to hit the right spots but soft and bendable enough to not cause any pain. Check plus.
The only problem I found with the Share dildo was that it kept slipping out of me, which made the whole process more difficult than I'd like. Maybe it was the positioning, maybe it was the amount of lubrication, maybe it could have been something else. The possibilities are endless. Probably an operator's error. Not your problem necessarily. In any case, it was fun to share for a change. Because sharing is caring, right?
Cleaning is ridiculously easy, easy, easy. Just use antibacterial soap and water, or if you want it to be completely sterile, you can boil it for about five minutes.
Hope this was any bit of helpful. Have fun.
Follow-up commentary
6 days after original review
Ok! So now I've had a bit more to do with the other end. Keeping you all posted like I said I would. This time I took the bulb end but paired it with a harness (Jaguar by Aslan Leather). The control factor wasn't as great as a normal strap on, but with enough practice it can be managed. As for the size, yeah, its big. At first it was kind of uncomfortable, but after a few minutes that uncomfortable feeling turned into a pleasurable one. It hit my G-spot with every thrust, not to mention the glorious pressure on my clit. After a while though it did get a bit painful again, so I wouldn't recommend it for prolonged use.
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can you get off while using this?
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I would really love to be using this with my partner, at got off at the same time..
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without too much effort on my part?
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It really depends on your anatomy and what gets you off.
If it can hit your g-spot, that'll do something, but it varies person-to-person how much. It might hit your clitoris, but again depends on how the toy fits your body - and if you can get off from that kind of stimulation.
Personally, I don't rely on it to get me "all the way" all by itself - because I can't orgasm so far with just g-spot and clitoral touching. Some people certainly can, it just depends. :)
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Strapless dildos
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Are strapless dildos hard to use for beginners?
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I've never tried one myself, but I've heard they have a bit of a learning curve and you need strong kegels to use them properly. I've also heard, however, that they will work with a harness if you need extra stability.
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It really seems like they're hard to use period. I don't know of anyone who regularly uses them without a harness (though I'd love to hear from someone who does).
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Share vs. Feeldoe
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forkehHow do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?
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Quote: How do these two products compare? Which one works better in and out of a harness?They both work well in a harness. Share is a little bouncier and thicker and jucier and Feeldoe is much firmer. I find them both easy to use with no harness, although I find Nexus JR the easiest to retain. Out of all the double dildoes I have tried (all 4 Feeldoes, both Shares, Tango, and the three Nexus sizes, I find Tango the hardest to hold with my muscles followed by Nexus Maximus (weighs a ton) and Share XL (weighs like a brick and is floppy) . I'm a driver. It matters a bit less if you are a pillow princess.
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I have the Feeldoe(slim) and the Tango and have used the Share. I agree with Kuuipogal. But for me they all pop out just prior to orgasm despite strong Kegels but the "look" w/o a harness is awesome.
I am a hard and vigorous driver so a harness for me has been the solution. I have the Aslan Jaguar and the Spare Parts both super.
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Strap-onless strap-ons
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I love when my girlfriend ties me down and dominates me but we haven't given much thought to strap-ons. Are the strapless ones as good as the strap-ons?
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A starp-on harness is a good initial investment because it can be used with a variety of toys including strapless ones (if desired).
The strapless ones seem to be pretty good, though depending on who you talk to. The Share line and the feeldoe line seem to get good marks from most and present the best chance that they can be used completely without a harness. The Nexus line would probably be somewhat more difficult for the giver to hold inside without a harness. I think the harness option might be better for versatility, but the Share might represent an excellent choice for you and your girlfriend as well. -
Quote: I love when my girlfriend ties me down and dominates me but we haven't given much thought to strap-ons. Are the strapless ones as good as the strap-ons?Personally, I would say no... just because they're harder to navigate. Certainly possible, and you can add a harness to get more stability while keeping the internal stimulation. There are also some harnesses that will hold a cock inside the wearer as well, so you have more options.
I'd agree with Jimbo that either the Share or Feeldoe is your best bet for doubles like this, the Nexus just doesn't cut it.
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Have you been able to experience both ends, or just the receiving end? Is this a favorite toy for you and your girlfriend now, or is it just for special occasions? Any opinion regarding comparison to a traditional strap-on and dildo? Sorry for all the questions, inquiring minds want to know. By the way, thanks for the review.
Looks like a fun toy!
I've been wanting to try this, as opposed to a traditional harness, for some time now. It might slip out less with practice, if this was your first time using a sex toy.
Nice first review, and welcome! Have you tried it in other positions?
Also remember- silicone can be boiled, wiped with 10% bleach solution, or run through the dishwasher (top rack, no soap) for sterilization!
Jimbo- Haven't tried the other end yet, but I'll keep you posted on that one. It's just random occasions, not necessarily special ones. Strap-ons tend to be a bit more sturdy and in place, while this one was bending at its own free will from its base. I hope that made sense. I'm not to graceful with my words. But if you have any more questions (or I didn't really answer them) please ask.
Dame- Go for it! And yes, practice makes perfect. Or maybe that's my excuse to go play. : )
Wrangler- Thanks! I haven't really tried any other positions... yet. I'll keep posted. And thanks for mentioning the other cleaning techniques. They kinda slipped my mind when I was writing. I'll definitely put them in there somewhere.
Share does take some time to get used to maneuvering. But I'm working on it. Glad you enjoyed it. ;-)
Haha, check plus! Did you have professors use that weird system too?
Hahh no. I wish. Mine were mostly like "F".
Why was the control factor not as good in a harness as compared to other one-sided dildos?
These double dildos just exude quality.
Ahh such a good product. I need to write a review myself but you've already done such a good job.
Ahh...I really want one of these.
Very useful review!
Hope to try this one day. Thanks for the review!
Thank you for the review!