The sweetest upturned nose
If you have any interest in becoming a squirter, this is the product for you. Its perfectly designed to give you targeted, strong g-spot stimulation.Published: January 2, 2009
Pros:
insane effectiveness, quality material and construction.
Cons:
none.
Ella is like the experienced lover that knows exactly what to do. And not just an expert lover, but one who knows how to make you squirt.
I've tried a few inexpensive g spot vibrators before without success, but with Ella, stimulation was much easier and more intense. Using Ella required no experimentation. It immediately zeroed in on my g-spot like a laser guided missile, even though I was new at g-spot stimulation when I first used it. A leaned-back sitting position with my legs curled up next to my body is the most effective position for me. It honestly felt like I instantly fell into exactly the right rhythm for optimum stimulation.
I have not tried her straight end. If I'm going to use a straight dildo, I need something bigger than that. I bought Ella solely for the g-spot end. But the straight end makes an excellent handle, with ridges that provide constant assurance that the g-spot end is straight up.
This toy even comes with a manual and a one year warranty. The instructions caution against using silicone lube with it since its a silicone toy. Its nice that its made from a safe, quality material. I find that Ella is small enough that I usually don't need to use any lube at all.
Ella arrived with an outer box containing a quality black box with a molded insert in which Ella can be stored. Also included is a satin pouch, which is what I use. The molded insert in my box had a large crack in it, even though the box containing it looked undamaged.
Ella is a bit of a lint and fiber magnet, almost like rubber toys. I always rinse her off before use. After use, she cleans easily with soap and water. And Ella has almost no scent.
I've tried a few inexpensive g spot vibrators before without success, but with Ella, stimulation was much easier and more intense. Using Ella required no experimentation. It immediately zeroed in on my g-spot like a laser guided missile, even though I was new at g-spot stimulation when I first used it. A leaned-back sitting position with my legs curled up next to my body is the most effective position for me. It honestly felt like I instantly fell into exactly the right rhythm for optimum stimulation.
I have not tried her straight end. If I'm going to use a straight dildo, I need something bigger than that. I bought Ella solely for the g-spot end. But the straight end makes an excellent handle, with ridges that provide constant assurance that the g-spot end is straight up.
This toy even comes with a manual and a one year warranty. The instructions caution against using silicone lube with it since its a silicone toy. Its nice that its made from a safe, quality material. I find that Ella is small enough that I usually don't need to use any lube at all.
Ella arrived with an outer box containing a quality black box with a molded insert in which Ella can be stored. Also included is a satin pouch, which is what I use. The molded insert in my box had a large crack in it, even though the box containing it looked undamaged.
Ella is a bit of a lint and fiber magnet, almost like rubber toys. I always rinse her off before use. After use, she cleans easily with soap and water. And Ella has almost no scent.
Experience
During my initial use I squirted for the first time in my life.
But how could I be sure that I didn't just push a little pee out? It didn't smell like pee, but a small amount of pee doesn't smell like pee either. And I can tell you that I don't have enough control to stop the flow once I start peeing. But doubts lingered in my mind about this.
I will say though that each time I express liquid it happens after a warm fantastic sensation washes over me, always accompanied by a the feeling that I'm about to pee. This is not nearly as intense a sensation as a clitoral orgasm, like I've heard it's supposed to be - but a wonderful sensation nonetheless. Its a sensation that I now crave.
The second time with Ella, I made sure my bladder was completely empty. After an hour of trying, there was no squirting. It was an enjoyable hour however and it took less than a minute of follow up with the Magic Wand to finish.
In subsequent sessions, I've noticed that the volume of liquid expressed marches in lockstep with the volume of water in my bladder. But the intensity of sensation is also stronger when my bladder is full. Non-empty bladders, by the way, are known to increase sexual sensation.
To end all doubt, I collected the liquid. It looks like non-fat milk! There is no doubt!
I'm still amazed that, at age 50, I've become a squirter. And its becoming easier each time. With the volume of liquid I express after only a few minutes of use, I expect to single-handedly end the water shortage in California once I do have a full g-spot orgasm.
But how could I be sure that I didn't just push a little pee out? It didn't smell like pee, but a small amount of pee doesn't smell like pee either. And I can tell you that I don't have enough control to stop the flow once I start peeing. But doubts lingered in my mind about this.
I will say though that each time I express liquid it happens after a warm fantastic sensation washes over me, always accompanied by a the feeling that I'm about to pee. This is not nearly as intense a sensation as a clitoral orgasm, like I've heard it's supposed to be - but a wonderful sensation nonetheless. Its a sensation that I now crave.
The second time with Ella, I made sure my bladder was completely empty. After an hour of trying, there was no squirting. It was an enjoyable hour however and it took less than a minute of follow up with the Magic Wand to finish.
In subsequent sessions, I've noticed that the volume of liquid expressed marches in lockstep with the volume of water in my bladder. But the intensity of sensation is also stronger when my bladder is full. Non-empty bladders, by the way, are known to increase sexual sensation.
To end all doubt, I collected the liquid. It looks like non-fat milk! There is no doubt!
I'm still amazed that, at age 50, I've become a squirter. And its becoming easier each time. With the volume of liquid I express after only a few minutes of use, I expect to single-handedly end the water shortage in California once I do have a full g-spot orgasm.
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ella vs. others
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I want to get ella as my first she doesn't seem as menacing as the others made of glass or metal but are those materials better sensation wise?
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It comes down to personal preference, really. You're not going to know if glass or metal feels better to you until you try.
A couple things to keep in mind, though: glass and metal have absolutely no give, so they tend to feel bigger than silicone toys of the same size. They're also rather heavy in most cases, and so you need to be a bit more careful when you use them. Being too rough can result in internal bruising. They're very slick and smooth, though, unlike silicone which typically has some drag to it.
The Ella is pretty rigid for a silicone toy, but it's very light and easy to use. It's great if you're new to dildos. :) -
Quote: I want to get ella as my first she doesn't seem as menacing as the others made of glass or metal but are those materials better sensation wise?I have not tried anything like that I hear alot of good things and alot of not so good things. its up to you to try and see what you prefer..
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How Does Lelo Ella compare to Gigi?
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I know that Ella doesn't vibrate, but are there many other differences? I am wondering whether the Ella might be a better shape or size for g-spot stimulation
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Would the Ella work well for a beginner?
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I'm thinking of getting my bestfriend this for Christmas but she is new to toys. Would this be a good toy to give a newbie? I have not tried it myself so I'm not sure how easy it is to master.
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I have the similarly shaped Gigi and found nothing but frustration when trying to thrust with it.
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i think it would be a good option for a beginner.
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I need help the Ella curve is doing me in.
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I am not sure what I am doing wrong. I have read every review and some twice. I can not figure this girl out. I want to write a review but, how can I write a review on something I do not get. Any ideas would be wonderful. Please help me enjoy this beautiful toy.
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What do you not get about it? Not every toy works for every woman. Does it hurt to use? Maybe your vagina is too small for it yet or maybe you just need some lube. Do you not feel anything? Again, nothing is for everyone. Try sqeezing the toy by doing kegels when you use it. Some women say that makes things feel better. Or maybe try tilting it up towards your g-spot. That works for me with other toys.
I haven't used it yet. Just recently purchased a white Ella. And I can't wait! We've got the same name! :D -
If you don't get it you can still write your review from that perspective. I'm sure you wouldn't be the only one who had that experience with it. I have the Ella and she's nice but she's not fireworks for me and that's ok. We all have different experiences with toys and that is what makes these reviews so valuable.
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Dildo vs. Vibrator
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I am having a hard time getting used to the idea of a dildo vs. a vibrator! As far as using one goes, how does one decide which is better for oneself? Just wondering and thanks!
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Quote: I am having a hard time getting used to the idea of a dildo vs. a vibrator! As far as using one goes, how does one decide which is better for oneself? Just wondering and thanks!What I mean by this I think is, is it easier with one than the other, or maybe does it require a different mind set or even is one better with partner play vs. solo? I don't know, LOL, just curious.
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When we started with toys it was all about clit vibes for 'effective' reliable orgasms. But as we got into g-spot and a-spot stimulation, dildos have advantages over vibes because pressure is more important than vibes.
Now we almost always have some of both going on. A dildo for internal and a clit vibe for external - although she occasionally likes two vibes.
The only truism I've found is that what she wants/needs is different almost every time. I use to think 'this worked last time - so lets do it again' - but now I think 'we did that last time - what can I do to mix things up'.
That's why we have dozens of toys - both vibes and dildos.
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Ella for beginners
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Hey! I was just wondering if Ella would be something an absolute beginner could use, someone who's never gone looking for her g-spot before. She seems awfully tempting, but I wonder if I it's too advanced a toy for me?
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Quote: Hey! I was just wondering if Ella would be something an absolute beginner could use, someone who's never gone looking for her g-spot before. She seems awfully tempting, but I wonder if I it's too advanced a toy for me?Ella is perfect for beginners. I had tried several other G-spot toys before Ella. Ella was the first one that worked for me. Several people have had their first successes with Ella.
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Quote: Ella is perfect for beginners. I had tried several other G-spot toys before Ella. Ella was the first one that worked for me. Several people have had their first successes with Ella.I'm glad Ella seems like such a successful toy! I hope she works for me, too <3
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Ella and Gigi
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I've had both the Ella and the Gigi sitting in my shopping cart for days now. I was wondering.. should I get them both, or should I maybe just get one to try, then maybe later on get the other if I want?
They both seem so worth it, it's hard to just pick one! -
Quote: I've had both the Ella and the Gigi sitting in my shopping cart for days now. I was wondering.. should I get them both, or should I maybe just get one to try, then maybe later on get the other if I want?I just bought the Ella and have not tried it yet, but everyone seems to love it. I have had the GiGi for a couple of months and rarely use it, mainly because the control thing is located in the worst possible spot, and I invariably hit it and make the settings change! Argh! I also had no luck with it for g-spot stimulation, and the only times I get it out it is for clit work.
They both seem so worth it, it's hard to just pick one!
Even though I wasn't crazy about GiGi, it seems to do the job for a lot of people, so it might work for you. In fact, I bought it based on all the wonderful reviews. I've come to the conclusion that there is no one toy that will do the trick for everyone. Everyone is VERY different in their tastes and what they need. -
I agree that no toy is good for everyone. I can not get a rabbit vibe that actually works for me by stimulating my clit and vag at the same time. Perhaps its operator error.
Anyway, I love the Gigi. I solved the control issue for me anyway by wiping the lube off the control and my fingers...success. The effectiveness of the Gigi is the vibe plus the design. I don't have the Ella, which is not a vibe but I see it as similar to many of the g spot dils available.
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I have read a bit about squirting on scientific websites on the internet and found out that some pee may be expelled at the same time as you squirt. Also the liquid formed during arousal goes into the bladder where it then comes out through the urethral opening. And, I also read you have to have drank water to make sure you are well hydrated in order to be able to squirt. I found that if I haven't drinken tea, water, etc, I can't squirt or I have trouble to. Good luck and nice review!
I want this dildo so much, it hurts! Thanks for the review.
I want this dildo so much, it hurts! Thanks for the review.
Woohoo!
It's never to late to become a squirter! Congrats!!! It does get easier to do it every time you do it. Eventually you will likely be able to squirt without g-spot stimulation. I know... it seems far fetched, but it's true.
Nice review. I really want one of these.
Squirting without g-spot stimulation? I think I have a new goal!
Maybe this should be filed under 'juicers'...thank you for sharing your experiences so vividly and for your suggestions. Your review is so helpful!
I'm late to the party on this review, but it was just what I was looking for - a beginner's squirting experience. I want to do this so badly, and I haven't yet found the right toy to make it happen. Sounds like the Ella is the obvious choice. Thanks for a great review!