Feeldoe violet - double ended dildo by Tantus - review by Snozzberries

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Violet Vagina Violator

This is a functional discussion piece: it is like no other toy I own in its simplicity and range of possibilities. It is aesthetically pleasing and physically pleasing and takes play to a whole new level. Whether using it for gender play or just a fun time, having a penis that pleasures both parties is a definite plus. I did find it easier to use a harness based on my body type, however, and there is a bit of a learning curve, but overall I am glad I have this toy.
Published:
Pros:
Ingenious design / great idea
Internally and visually stimulating
Sturdy
Cons:
May not be a comfortable fit for some body types
More comfortable (for me) with a harness
Rating by reviewer:
4
extremely useful review

Use

To use: insert bulb, adjust penis, hump.

Well, that's how easy it's supposed to be. My experience was a little more complex than that, but was still mostly enjoyable. I used it only for vaginal penetration but I think this would work excellently at anal due to the firmness.

The whole toy is flexible, which made me question the sturdiness of the penis versus the bulb. The neck between the two is thinner than the rest, but it's held up to my most vigorous activity. I'm not worried it will break while being used anymore, but it was a point I had to test. I bent the dong part over the top of itself and was able to make an O with the head touching the bulb. I also was able to make a U to where the head of the penis touched the textured part. I don't think I'll be doing that again, though, now that I know. I don't want to risk breaking my fun toy in a freak bending accident.

The bulb is smooth and not drastically bulbous, which fits nicely. It's not too big for me but I definitely feel it when it's inside (it's the same width as the penis itself at the largest). Once it's inserted, the penis length is shortened by three to six inches, depending on your body structure. In the picture, without having been inserted, it looks pretty impressive (the thing is nine inches long). It was a little less impressive when I put it on because it took off quite a bit of the length. I'm not a length queen but I wish it had a little more to the end. I might have to pick up the Feeldoe More to add that extra inch to my reach because my insertable length is only about five inches. Five inches isn't bad, necessarily, but the angle I wear it for comfort makes it difficult to insert all five inches.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Gender play
    • Group situations
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • G-spot
    • Kegels

Material / Texture

Smooth silicone makes this great to clean up and easy to use. You have to use water-based lube only, though, because all other lubes are purple pecker wreckers. There is a ribbed area that is supposed to correspond with the location of the clit, which it mostly does, but I didn't notice a lot of stimulation from that area. The sensation for me was centered inside my vagina.

I did not use the included bullet vibe while playing with this product; I didn't want to have to mess with it or worry that it would run out of batteries mid-way through play.

The smell is mild and not unpleasant. Touching it without lube, though, seems to catch my skin and I don't like it. I need slick and smooth.
    • Harness compatible

Design / Shape / Size

When inserted, the only complaint I have on the size isn't because of the toy itself - my body type makes this a little shorter than I had anticipated, but it's not detrimentally short. I can still use it just fine. Seeing it on the website and looking down at it are two completely different perspectives.

This is the first dildo I have used with a harness and it works beyond expectations that way. Without the harness it still is a great invention and I can recommend it to my beginner friends without hesitation but I do now add in the caveat about how the harness makes it easier.

Don't carry this through the airport security checkpoint because it is very phallic AND, even more than that, it is made of material that makes security eye you suspiciously and likely bring the dogs out.
    • Ergonomic
    • Partner play
    • Whimsical / artistic

Performance

I recently bought a harness (SpareParts Theo) to be able to review this both with and without a harness.

Without a harness:
There was a definite gravity issue without the harness. When I had the bulb inserted and my legs closed, I was able to hold the Feeldoe inside and thrust without issue; who really wants to thrust while having to remember to keep their legs closed, though? When I changed position or had to adjust my angle, the Feeldoe slipped a little and either fell out or hit the wrong parts and became uncomfortable and even painful in one case.

I found it to be a little unwieldy and awkward with just the Feeldoe by itself.

With a harness:
Using the SpareParts Theo harness, I was able to find a comfortable position for both the bulb and the penis that took a lot of the frustration out of the experience. I was able to spread my legs, move around without worry and thrust with confidence. I got more pleasure from the bulb inside, too, because it stayed in the right place the whole time.

Reversed:
I used the dildo end on myself once or twice and found it to be ok. A little firm for my tastes overall but generally workable. Inserting it using the bulb area as a handle does work different muscles in my arm because of the handle angle, and it seemed a little more difficult and slippery to hold the thicker base when turning it on myself.
    • Easy to use
    • Not discreet at all

Care and Maintenance

Wash with water, disinfect by boiling (but remember to take the bullet vibe out first!) or by throwing it on the top shelf of your dishwasher.

(I love that I can put my sex toys in my dishwasher.)

The toy does pick up dust, hair and fuzz from EVERYWHERE, so you will likely have to wash it before use every time.
    • Easy to clean

Packaging

The packaging was a simple plastic package, nothing fancy. The insert and the clear packaging made it pretty obvious what this was. While you could probably store the Feeldoe in the original package, it's not very practical due to the package size.
    • Not discreet

Personal comments

I really recommend a harness with this product, but it can certainly work without one. Body types vary so this may work really well without a harness for some, just not for me.
Follow-up commentary
While I still like it, having used it more both with and without a harness, I've decided I like it a lot better with a harness. If I get too rambunctious with my thrusting, the harness keeps the bulb from pushing too hard against the back of my vagina. Without the harness, I've gotten a little too enthusiastic and it's hurt for days back there. I also tend to get more of a soreness around my clitoris without using the harness; I've never had enough clitoral stimulation from this to bring on an orgasm so I'm not missing much by having the harness hold the dildo a bit away from my parts.

Overall, I still very much enjoy this, but I appreciate the additional support the harness gives.
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Comments
  • Antipova
    Antipova  
    I've been eternally curious about these, and your review makes me curiouser and curiouser. What a wonderful student!
  • Curiouscat
    Curiouscat  
    Great review. Very interesting toy, it looks kinda nice.
  • Jimbo Jones
    Jimbo Jones  
    I'm sure you don't want to kiss and tell, but you don't really explain if you used it to peg some lucky guy or if it was used on some lucky lady. That can make a difference in how well it works. This is a great review regardless, but it made me wonder. Thanks!
  • Eva Schwaltz
    Eva Schwaltz  
    Great review! I have the Theo harness too, so I'm glad to know this works well with that.
  • Katelyn
    Katelyn  
    "freak bending incident", honestly I love your wording in this it's so fun to read! Great job reviewing, I will definitely keep up with you!
  • Teacookie
    Teacookie  
    me love you
  • Research
    Research  
    What a fancy contraption
  • LuciFaery
    LuciFaery  
    Thanks for the review!
  • jessi2
    jessi2  
    I love your review. I have wanted one of these since I realized I was a lesbian!
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