Ben-wa Balls - don't lose them!These small balls are easy to lose track of (oops!) and didn't add much pleasure to my kegel exercises. However, they are inexpensive and if you've used something similar before, these might work for you.
The package was small, and the balls were just slightly larger than the size of a marble. They were a white, pearly color with a smooth surface and slightly weighted. I gave them a rinse with soap and water and went to test them out. I inserted one at a time and began to do some kegel movements. Sadly, I didn't feel much sensation from the balls. Not wanting to give up, I reached into my drawer and pulled out a vibrator to add a little more fun to the mix. As I neared climax, one of the balls popped out. I decided to go ahead and remove the other one. Problem - I couldn't find it! I got up, pulled back the sheets thinking it must have come out without my knowing - still couldn't find it! Then I started to panic. Using my fingers, I tried to search for the missing ball, but still no success. Finally I called in my partner who could feel the ball wedged deep into the vaginal cavity. Unfortunately, she couldn't quite get it to come out - we tried many positions - standing, squatting, doggie style, etc. Finally, with a lot of pushing, it came out. I think I was overly stressed about thinking that the ball would be forever lodged up there or that I would go to the doctor and have to explain the problem.
If nothing else, these balls left my partner and I with a pretty funny story. I'm not sure that I felt that added any value to kegel exercises. A slightly larger set of balls might work better.