Butterfly Kiss: Looks Better Than it Acts
This is honestly made quite well, but is too soft to stimulate internally. Other than that, this toy would be great as long as it actually hits the correct spots of your body. I would recommend getting something that is a bit more firm.Published: January 7, 2011
Pros:
Small, strong vibrations.
Cons:
Not firm enough, only works with certain body types.
The butterfly kiss is a small, dual action vibrator that is similar to a rabbit. The toy is made out of a jelly material that is quite flexible and smooth. At the end there is a twist off cap where it holds two AAA batteries and has one button that controls the three speeds of vibration. The toy is designed to be inserted into the vagina and has a tip that is much thicker than the rest of the toy. This part is supposed to be a g-spot stimulator. The other part of this toy is the butterfly itself which is designed to provide clitoral stimulation.
One of my major problems with this toy is that it is made out of jelly. It is not that jelly is always bad, however jelly does not transfer vibrations very well at all. When it comes to vibrating toys, I always prefer toys that are made of a harder material rather than something soft like jelly. When I inserted this toy, it did not even hit my g-spot honestly, but even if it did, it would not have provided the stimulation that I was hoping for. The bullet is too far away from the area that you actually want to vibrate, and because it is jelly, most of the vibrations are lost before it even gets to you.
I also have an issue with the butterfly. The vibrations were actually quite strong, but the "feelers" of the butterfly that are supposed to stimulate the clitoris did not hit my clit at all. They were spread too far apart and stimulated around my clit instead of the clit itself. It was more annoying than stimulating.
This toy did impress me by how much vibration power it actually had for how small it was, but when the toy does not hit the right spots, I don't care how strong it is...it is not enjoyable! I would imagine that this toy would work wonders for someone who had a body makeup in which it hit your g-spot and your clit, however that was not the case for me.
The part that inserts is only about three inches long and does not seem to have enough of a curve or firmness to be able to provide enough pressure for it to really be enjoyable.
One of my major problems with this toy is that it is made out of jelly. It is not that jelly is always bad, however jelly does not transfer vibrations very well at all. When it comes to vibrating toys, I always prefer toys that are made of a harder material rather than something soft like jelly. When I inserted this toy, it did not even hit my g-spot honestly, but even if it did, it would not have provided the stimulation that I was hoping for. The bullet is too far away from the area that you actually want to vibrate, and because it is jelly, most of the vibrations are lost before it even gets to you.
I also have an issue with the butterfly. The vibrations were actually quite strong, but the "feelers" of the butterfly that are supposed to stimulate the clitoris did not hit my clit at all. They were spread too far apart and stimulated around my clit instead of the clit itself. It was more annoying than stimulating.
This toy did impress me by how much vibration power it actually had for how small it was, but when the toy does not hit the right spots, I don't care how strong it is...it is not enjoyable! I would imagine that this toy would work wonders for someone who had a body makeup in which it hit your g-spot and your clit, however that was not the case for me.
The part that inserts is only about three inches long and does not seem to have enough of a curve or firmness to be able to provide enough pressure for it to really be enjoyable.
Follow-up commentary
2 months after original review
I absolutely love the idea and intentions of this toy, but it just did not seem to work out for me. The size is not correct for me, and simply does not hit the correct spots. It also does not seem to transfer the vibrations very well. I would love to see a better version of this, because I really did have high hopes for it.
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Blue more expensive?
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Anyone know why the blue is more expensive than the pink? They're the same, right? So why is one more expensive?
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I've never noticed.
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Quote: Anyone know why the blue is more expensive than the pink? They're the same, right? So why is one more expensive?Send in a ticket, see what customer service says.
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i have experiment attraction to women,,, i´m bicurious?
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hi my name is yesenia paris,, and i´m 22 but since i was in high school i kind of have curiosity for girls,, i never like really kiss a girl or anything or i never had any female friend to experiment that, like i am very shy person and also like a lonely girl,, althought i am a very pleasant person and i good human being ,, noone seens to like me,,, but although of that matter i still feel the curiosity may because i have never been with a girl before
does that make a bisexual,a bicurious,of it just because the loneliness or the lock of friends,, like i never have a real
girl friend ,, like it´s samething that happens with boys,, you are not friends with them ,, but you like them in a different way,,, i always thing it´s because my loneliness
and the need of an another ,, girl being friends with me i also don´t have a mom to call and talk about my problems maybe it´s because of that the confusion thanks have a nice day -
Someone made a similar post a while back, and I'll basically tell you what we told her. Don't follow stereotypes. Don't label yourself. If you are interested in girls, then you just are. If you haven't experimented with girls, personally I feel that when I liked someone it isn't based on any particular factor, it is based on the person themselves. I tell people I am bisexual, but really I think of myself as pansexual, not limiting emotion and attraction to anything. Not gender, not age, not race, not social status.
I think that sometimes people can become lonely and will "settle", making them open their views and ideas of dating up, to allow "just anyone" to enter into their lives. My boyfriend was this way, before meeting me, dating anyone who would say yes because he had no friends, and had been hurt and heartbroken so badly he just wanted to feel loved and accepted. I also have a straight friend who dated women just so she could have someone to date, but she wasn't attracted to them, although she liked to experiment and have fun, she says she is straight, but I don't give her a label.
If you ever need a friend to talk to, I am a good listener :) -
Excellent advice Peggi and I second that. We don't need labels...we're just people. I'm a good listener too.
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What's up with different Butterfly Kisses?
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When I bought my Butterfly Kiss I thought there were only 2 versions - the standard and the Platinum Edition. Since I couldn't find the PE in my country I went with the regular one. I was so bent on getting it after watching Kara Sutra's review of it. She said it was TPR. I got my Butterfly Kiss. On the packaging (plastic shell with a piece of paper) it said that it's "phthalate-free" and made of TPR. I'm inclined to believe it as it didn't smell, didn't turn ugly yellow even when I had it for more than a year, didn't sting my bits (jelly does).
Now, however I see those jelly Butterfly Kisses. What's the deal? Was my vibe mis-labeled or are there more than 2 versions? I still have the paper insert from the packaging if you'd like to see it. The vibe itself looks a bit more opaque than what I see in EF catalog - it's always looked like this.
I would also ask people from EF who deal with the Review Program. Is my Butterfly Kiss same as yours (and thus qualifies for a review) or is it a different product? -
Hi there!! California Exotic Novelties was the 1st to come out with this fantastic design. & yes we only have 2 versions, the platinum & the original. Check it out on our website link
Many other companies have tried to duplicate our product but have had no success. We are the original creators with the best product :) Hope this helps! -
All butterfly Kiss items are made from Safe&Pure TPR
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i used this one and after
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my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got off
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Quote: my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got offIt's the jelly - throw it away or always use a condom. Look for better materials like silicone or VixSkin.
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I wouldn't even use a condom...just get rid of it and stay away from the material.
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Jelly Deformation?
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Well I loved this little bugger and it came at a bargain so I suppose I can't complain too much. But I whipped it out for play tonight only to find that the jelly seems to have dented and deformed itself on the lovely bulbous head. I had it in a pocket next to my turbo glider and I suspect with some heat and pressure, that's the culprit that did this. It has very odd dents/suctionish things on it now.
Is this prone to happen to jelly toys? Could it have been the California summer heat? I would like to prevent this from happening in the future.
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It is my experience that jelly toys just deteriorate really fast...the heat may have sped up this process though. I do know heat can cause more phthalates to leak out of jelly. It probably just kind of melted on you a little. I would have to say you should go ahead and get a new one or better yet, find a comparible toy in silicone! Silicone can be boiled so, heat shouldn't be an issue with it at all! It always sucks when one of your favorites melts.
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Does your house get pretty warm? I've never had that problem and I live in AZ. Was it touching the turbo glider? Sounds like a toy material interaction to me.
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Excellent review, I found this to be really helpful! It's good to know that the material didn't really transfer the vibrations well. Too bad, though, right?
Nice review!!
You have a g-spot and clit now?
I'm not trying to be rude at all, but if you are reviewing WITH your wife or girlfriend, could you please differentiate who the speaker is? Especially when you don't specify in your profile that you are a couple.
I review for My Mr all the time, but I am very conscientious in saying "He thought" "He felt" "He said" so that it doesn't sound like I suddenly have a penis or p-spot.
I'm sorry if anyone is offended by what I was saying. I'm simply confused as to how the writer has a clit and g-spot when the profile states that it's a male and the review was written in first person. It wasn't a personal attack. I think I offered some pretty supportive advice as to how this could be edited to avoid confusion. I truly do apologize if it seemed harsh.
and please, if my second review offended you, please do not flag it. It only provides Kristi with more work and she will already be reading the comment when she investigates the first flag.
I may have been quick to flag, and I apologize for that. My thought process was this:
I do not have to do this, and currently I am not getting any real perks for it due to the ratings of my reviews not exactly being stellar. I do this because I love to help people out, and I personally love to read reviews from many people before buying something. I am just trying to help out. Honestly, I thought that it was a bit obvious that I had my significant other put her voice in rather than mine seeing as how it is written. I apologize for not saying that in advance.
Good review. I got this a while ago and found I did not like it at all.
Thanks for the review. I was debating getting this a little while ago. I guess it was a good thing that I didn't.
Thanks for the review!
thanks for the review
Great review