Fave beginner vibe of all time!
If you're looking for a new product, one that's easy to use, light weight, comfortable, body safe, nicely designed and easy to care for I highly suggest the Butterfly Kiss. Whether you're a beginner or someone who has lots of toys, I'm pretty sure you'll find the Butterfly Kiss a very worthy addition to your collection.Published: February 21, 2011
Pros:
easy to use, comfortable, flexible, body safe, discreet, quiet
Cons:
no "quick off" button, might not be the right shape for everyone
When I first got my Butterfly Kiss I thought it would be crappy. What can I say...I've had some of my not so fave products come from California Exotics. Fortunately I was extremely and very pleasantly surprised!
It's sleek and well designed, with the bulbous head perfect for hitting the g-spot and antennae in perfect alignment for clitoral stimulation (for me anyways). I know some people have said it wasn't the right shape for them, but I think it's important to keep in mind that every body is different and what works for one may not work for another.
When it comes to G-spot stimulation the bulb (for me) was the perfect length, being neither too long, nor too short. It hit perfectly and provided the right kind of pressure to give me a mind blowing g-spot orgasm! Aside from that, the fact that it isn't too girthy made insertion a breeze and the flexibility makes it very comfortable once it's inserted.
One of the things I liked most was the fact that it was squishy rather than being firm/hard like most traditional vibes. For me, having a product that bends and flexes with my body - allowing me to gyrate or lean on it as my level of arousal/stimulation requires is very important. The Butterfly Kiss moves wonderfully with the body, neither pinching, poking or prodding at you.
The push button activation (located on the bottom) makes it extremely easy to operate. Simply press the button once and it turns on, push it again and you go to the next setting (there are 3 in total). To turn it off you have to run through the settings and the 4th time you push it, it turns off.
In regard to materials, it's made of odorless TPR (though the website states it's made of jelly) so it's body safe and phthalate free. The downfall; it's slightly porous so you'll need to clean it well. I'd suggest using either an antibacterial toy cleaner or mild soap and water, making sure to rinse it well. Also in regard to the material, I would suggest a good water based lube rather than silicone, even though it is compatible with both.
*For those that will ask, I suggested the above lube because silicone can be rather hard to wash off. Considering it's made of TPR (which as I said is porous) it may be absorbed and require a few washes to thoroughly clean.
It's sleek and well designed, with the bulbous head perfect for hitting the g-spot and antennae in perfect alignment for clitoral stimulation (for me anyways). I know some people have said it wasn't the right shape for them, but I think it's important to keep in mind that every body is different and what works for one may not work for another.
When it comes to G-spot stimulation the bulb (for me) was the perfect length, being neither too long, nor too short. It hit perfectly and provided the right kind of pressure to give me a mind blowing g-spot orgasm! Aside from that, the fact that it isn't too girthy made insertion a breeze and the flexibility makes it very comfortable once it's inserted.
One of the things I liked most was the fact that it was squishy rather than being firm/hard like most traditional vibes. For me, having a product that bends and flexes with my body - allowing me to gyrate or lean on it as my level of arousal/stimulation requires is very important. The Butterfly Kiss moves wonderfully with the body, neither pinching, poking or prodding at you.
The push button activation (located on the bottom) makes it extremely easy to operate. Simply press the button once and it turns on, push it again and you go to the next setting (there are 3 in total). To turn it off you have to run through the settings and the 4th time you push it, it turns off.
In regard to materials, it's made of odorless TPR (though the website states it's made of jelly) so it's body safe and phthalate free. The downfall; it's slightly porous so you'll need to clean it well. I'd suggest using either an antibacterial toy cleaner or mild soap and water, making sure to rinse it well. Also in regard to the material, I would suggest a good water based lube rather than silicone, even though it is compatible with both.
*For those that will ask, I suggested the above lube because silicone can be rather hard to wash off. Considering it's made of TPR (which as I said is porous) it may be absorbed and require a few washes to thoroughly clean.
Follow-up commentary
5 months after original review
My Butterfly Kiss has become one of my all time fave products - it's light weight, easy to use, easy to insert, comfortable, the perfect length for g-spot stimulation and hasn't died in the power department. When it does eventually die (which it will, they *all* do at some point) I'll be getting another as a replacement. If you don't have this I suggest you get your hands on it.
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Blue more expensive?
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Anyone know why the blue is more expensive than the pink? They're the same, right? So why is one more expensive?
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I've never noticed.
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Quote: Anyone know why the blue is more expensive than the pink? They're the same, right? So why is one more expensive?Send in a ticket, see what customer service says.
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i have experiment attraction to women,,, i´m bicurious?
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hi my name is yesenia paris,, and i´m 22 but since i was in high school i kind of have curiosity for girls,, i never like really kiss a girl or anything or i never had any female friend to experiment that, like i am very shy person and also like a lonely girl,, althought i am a very pleasant person and i good human being ,, noone seens to like me,,, but although of that matter i still feel the curiosity may because i have never been with a girl before
does that make a bisexual,a bicurious,of it just because the loneliness or the lock of friends,, like i never have a real
girl friend ,, like it´s samething that happens with boys,, you are not friends with them ,, but you like them in a different way,,, i always thing it´s because my loneliness
and the need of an another ,, girl being friends with me i also don´t have a mom to call and talk about my problems maybe it´s because of that the confusion thanks have a nice day -
Someone made a similar post a while back, and I'll basically tell you what we told her. Don't follow stereotypes. Don't label yourself. If you are interested in girls, then you just are. If you haven't experimented with girls, personally I feel that when I liked someone it isn't based on any particular factor, it is based on the person themselves. I tell people I am bisexual, but really I think of myself as pansexual, not limiting emotion and attraction to anything. Not gender, not age, not race, not social status.
I think that sometimes people can become lonely and will "settle", making them open their views and ideas of dating up, to allow "just anyone" to enter into their lives. My boyfriend was this way, before meeting me, dating anyone who would say yes because he had no friends, and had been hurt and heartbroken so badly he just wanted to feel loved and accepted. I also have a straight friend who dated women just so she could have someone to date, but she wasn't attracted to them, although she liked to experiment and have fun, she says she is straight, but I don't give her a label.
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Excellent advice Peggi and I second that. We don't need labels...we're just people. I'm a good listener too.
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What's up with different Butterfly Kisses?
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When I bought my Butterfly Kiss I thought there were only 2 versions - the standard and the Platinum Edition. Since I couldn't find the PE in my country I went with the regular one. I was so bent on getting it after watching Kara Sutra's review of it. She said it was TPR. I got my Butterfly Kiss. On the packaging (plastic shell with a piece of paper) it said that it's "phthalate-free" and made of TPR. I'm inclined to believe it as it didn't smell, didn't turn ugly yellow even when I had it for more than a year, didn't sting my bits (jelly does).
Now, however I see those jelly Butterfly Kisses. What's the deal? Was my vibe mis-labeled or are there more than 2 versions? I still have the paper insert from the packaging if you'd like to see it. The vibe itself looks a bit more opaque than what I see in EF catalog - it's always looked like this.
I would also ask people from EF who deal with the Review Program. Is my Butterfly Kiss same as yours (and thus qualifies for a review) or is it a different product? -
Hi there!! California Exotic Novelties was the 1st to come out with this fantastic design. & yes we only have 2 versions, the platinum & the original. Check it out on our website link
Many other companies have tried to duplicate our product but have had no success. We are the original creators with the best product :) Hope this helps! -
All butterfly Kiss items are made from Safe&Pure TPR
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i used this one and after
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my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got off
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Quote: my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got offIt's the jelly - throw it away or always use a condom. Look for better materials like silicone or VixSkin.
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I wouldn't even use a condom...just get rid of it and stay away from the material.
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Jelly Deformation?
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Well I loved this little bugger and it came at a bargain so I suppose I can't complain too much. But I whipped it out for play tonight only to find that the jelly seems to have dented and deformed itself on the lovely bulbous head. I had it in a pocket next to my turbo glider and I suspect with some heat and pressure, that's the culprit that did this. It has very odd dents/suctionish things on it now.
Is this prone to happen to jelly toys? Could it have been the California summer heat? I would like to prevent this from happening in the future.
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It is my experience that jelly toys just deteriorate really fast...the heat may have sped up this process though. I do know heat can cause more phthalates to leak out of jelly. It probably just kind of melted on you a little. I would have to say you should go ahead and get a new one or better yet, find a comparible toy in silicone! Silicone can be boiled so, heat shouldn't be an issue with it at all! It always sucks when one of your favorites melts.
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Does your house get pretty warm? I've never had that problem and I live in AZ. Was it touching the turbo glider? Sounds like a toy material interaction to me.
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great review, looks like a nice toy.
Apparently the TPR version you have is the "platinum editition" link
*edition
great review
@Coralbell - I actually don't have the "platinum edition", I wish I did though as it has more vibe settings. The one I own is the original, I went to the companies website (California Exotics) to see what the materials were - you can check here: link
Oh, sorry about that! I just knew that Eden sold both a jelly and TPR version of this toy and assumed yours must be the other one.
Very great review! I'm subcribed to you on YouTube also lol.
Thank you!!!
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Great review, thanks.
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Thanks for the great review!
Great review!
Thanks for the review!