The design of the toy was what made me get it, but as I began to use it for the first time, I was kind of intimidated. The tip to me seemed bigger than it looked. With the awkward shape of the toy, I couldn't fit the whole thing inside of me, so the widened base didn't make much of a difference, but with the right amount of pressure, the way it is flexible really helps to hit the g-spot. The toy itself could be a little shorter, in my opinion. I would recommend this for both beginners and advanced users. I find this toy easy to hide, but it does differ from person to person and their living situations. I wouldn't recommend traveling with this toy. Even though it is almost silent, it is kind of big.