The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy - erotic book by Cleis Press Inc. - review by Dame Demi

The Ultimate Guide To Sexual Fantasy|The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a fairly comprehensive book that covers a wide range of sexual topics, not just sexual fantasies|Sex Fantasies. In my opinion, the overall goal of the book is to convey that ALL sex is partially fantasy, and that fantasy can be used to enhance all sex.

The book explores many different types of sexual fantasy, from sex with multiple or anonymous partners to more unusual fantasies, like humping balloons until they pop. I thought I had heard it all regarding sexual fantasy until I read this book, but there were definitely a few things in here that I found new.

The book covers incorporating fantasy into masturbation, as well as into couples play and beyond (“Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes). There is the requisite section devoted to fantasy role-play and suggestions for various role-playing scenarios|Costume play. There are chapters on fetishes, public sex, and even using strip clubs and prostitutes to enhance your sex play. There are also sections dedicated to S&M fantasies as well as Internet, text message, and electronic methods of stimulation. The book also covers topics from striptease to sex in public.

The book also contains several very useful resource sections. There is a section on sex games with a variety of suggestions. There is a chapter on “Safer Sex,” how to perform it, and charts of the risk factors for various sexual activities. Finally, there is a simple “Resources” section that provides resources for everything from where to purchase toys to gender play to how to perform a striptease.

As an added bonus, the book also contains several erotic short stories by erotica author Alison Tyler. The book in general is well-written, explicit, and fun to read. I would highly recommend this book to anyone wanting to spice up her sex life, or even to those merely curious about the world of sexual variations.

Violet Blue is an author I truly respect. She is genuinely able to present all forms of sexual concepts and practices--from the mundane to the unusual to the extreme--and present them in a way that is educational and non-threatening, even to the more conventional among us.