Venus butterfly - strap-on vibrator by Cal Exotics - review by jzimenova

I was intrigued by this little sex toy when I first laid eyes on it. The thought that I could get clitoral stimulation while having sex gave this sex toy a lot of appeal. I thought it looked quite cute when I took it out of the box, and the details of the butterfly were very intricate and pleasing to the eye. I decided to give it a solo try to prepare myself for the night with my husband. I found that it was easy to put on and the straps were snug enough to stay put, but not too overly snug that it was uncomfortable. I got the butterfly put into place and got comfortable in my bed. When I turned on the vibrator, I noticed that it had quite a strong vibe for such a small sex toy, but it was also a bit noisy for such a small toy. The butterfly was easy to adjust to get into the correct spot to have full clitoral stimulation and enjoy the vibrations. Soon I was completely relaxed as this little butterfly put flutters in all the right places sending me to pure bliss. It was the easiest orgasm that I have ever achieved.

Once my husband arrived, we decided to give it a whirl while having sex. We positioned the butterfly, turned it on, placed the remote control in the band by my thigh, and started having some fun. I quickly noticed that the butterfly kept needing to be readjusted as his lower pelvis kept moving it with each thrust. We kept changing positions to try to get the most out of the butterfly without having to keep readjusting it, and found that doggy style was the only position where it didn't seem to move. Since it constantly needed to be readjusted, I did not get much satisfaction from the vibrations while using it during intercourse which was slightly disappointing.

We did find that the controller was pretty basic and easy to use. During sex, we just placed the controller in the strap by my outer thigh and it stayed out of the way. Using it solo was easy as I could just hang onto it in my hand to adjust the settings as I needed in that moment.

All-in-all, I did enjoy this sex toy... but only as a solo act. It did give me a good pleasurable experience, and the ease of use made the act more enjoyable. I do not think we would use this again as a couple during intercourse, unless we would use just the butterfly for foreplay or for intermittent clitoral stimulation without the use of the straps. I would definitely use this sex toy again, though, as a solo act.

This sex toy is best used solo. When used as a couple during sex, I quickly noticed that the butterfly kept needing to be readjusted as his lower pelvis kept moving it. We kept changing positions to try to get the most out of the butterfly without having to keep readjusting it. I found that any position where I was on my back it would need to be readjusted continuously since it was easily hit by my husband's torso. Lying sideways, it would move to the side, and my vaginal lips would close thus making it impossible for the butterfly to hit my clitoris. We did find that doggy style seemed to be the most appropriate position for this toy as a couple since it did not move, I was able to get full clitoral stimulation, and it was not uncomfortable for either my husband or me. Since it constantly needed to be readjusted, I did not get much satisfaction from the vibrations while using it during intercourse.