Perfect starter toy! A great value.
The Butterfly Kiss turned me on to regular sex toy use! Its marketing as a "beginner toy" is for good reason. It has all the subtle qualities that are approachable enough to appeal to the curious yet uncertain, but still has enough power to drive you crazy and keep you interested. A dangerously addictive combination!Published: February 9, 2011
Pros:
Just insert and go! The Butterfly Kiss takes you from start to finish!
Cons:
May be too small and basic for more experienced users. Low quality material.
This toy may not be on the cusp of the sex toy design revolution, but it's great for getting newbies comfortable with playing with toys in a variety of ways, since it has a variety of uses. For someone like myself who'd come to accept the touch of my hand as the only solo action I could get without the risk of someone stumbling upon a veiny, plasticized phallus in my bedside table drawer, the Butterfly Kiss is a perfectly unintimidating introduction to the world of vibrators. Firstly, it's adorable, soft, discreetly designed, and non-threatening with its whimsical color palette and butterfly and heart design. It's also as simple to use as it appears. Despite the thinness of the insertable body, the bulbous head of this toy hits right against my g-spot without the fuss of having to search for the perfect angle. I didn't get too wild with position experimentation when I first tried this toy and I was still blown away by the intensity of the simultaneous g-spot and clitoral stimulation, even though the vibrations are relatively subtle.
Don't be fooled by the dainty presentation of the Butterfly Kiss...it packs a punch! I tucked it away for a while thinking I'd have no use for it with the inclusion of bigger and more elaborate toys to my collection, but it's back in my rotation now and I have a whole new appreciation for it! The flexible jelly and gentle 3-speed vibrations make it great for a variety of external uses. The head feels great against the clit for pre-game stimulation or as a combo with another dildo, and the head is also shaped perfectly to rest against the vaginal opening as a teaser before penetration. I still find myself reaching for the Butterfly Kiss over other toys if I know it'll be a quick session—this toy gets to the point with no frills! The butterfly flapping is a little too rapid for direct clitoral contact in my experience, but it is positioned perfectly when the head is fully inserted.
Because this toy is so small and the vibrations aren't over the top, it works at its all-time best in positions that allow firm contact between the head and the g-spot. Great intensity on all fours, laying on one side, or when pressed between the thighs!
Don't be fooled by the dainty presentation of the Butterfly Kiss...it packs a punch! I tucked it away for a while thinking I'd have no use for it with the inclusion of bigger and more elaborate toys to my collection, but it's back in my rotation now and I have a whole new appreciation for it! The flexible jelly and gentle 3-speed vibrations make it great for a variety of external uses. The head feels great against the clit for pre-game stimulation or as a combo with another dildo, and the head is also shaped perfectly to rest against the vaginal opening as a teaser before penetration. I still find myself reaching for the Butterfly Kiss over other toys if I know it'll be a quick session—this toy gets to the point with no frills! The butterfly flapping is a little too rapid for direct clitoral contact in my experience, but it is positioned perfectly when the head is fully inserted.
Because this toy is so small and the vibrations aren't over the top, it works at its all-time best in positions that allow firm contact between the head and the g-spot. Great intensity on all fours, laying on one side, or when pressed between the thighs!
Follow-up commentary
10 months after original review
Looking back with a more experienced perspective, this really is a pretty nice quickie g-spot vibe. The shaft—which is really just a means to separate the head from the base—doesn't offer much, nor do the butterfly wings for me personally. I find myself holding them still more often than I enjoy their stimulation. Still, the 3 1/2" insertable length is sized well for g-spot stimulation and the head, though small, gets the job done when I'm in a rush. I have no trouble reaching an orgasm in just a few minutes with this toy. I reach for it when I'm trying to relax my body before falling asleep or when I'm feeling lazy and don't want an elaborate session.
I still see this as a great beginner toy that you won't regret having around once you've graduated to more advanced designs, but it's so flexible that you could easily miss your g-spot with it if you don't know where to aim. For that reason I may not classify this as the "perfect" starter toy. A slightly firmer hooked style of a similar size may deliver better results with less maneuvering.
I still see this as a great beginner toy that you won't regret having around once you've graduated to more advanced designs, but it's so flexible that you could easily miss your g-spot with it if you don't know where to aim. For that reason I may not classify this as the "perfect" starter toy. A slightly firmer hooked style of a similar size may deliver better results with less maneuvering.
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Blue more expensive?
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Anyone know why the blue is more expensive than the pink? They're the same, right? So why is one more expensive?
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I've never noticed.
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Quote: Anyone know why the blue is more expensive than the pink? They're the same, right? So why is one more expensive?Send in a ticket, see what customer service says.
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i have experiment attraction to women,,, i´m bicurious?
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hi my name is yesenia paris,, and i´m 22 but since i was in high school i kind of have curiosity for girls,, i never like really kiss a girl or anything or i never had any female friend to experiment that, like i am very shy person and also like a lonely girl,, althought i am a very pleasant person and i good human being ,, noone seens to like me,,, but although of that matter i still feel the curiosity may because i have never been with a girl before
does that make a bisexual,a bicurious,of it just because the loneliness or the lock of friends,, like i never have a real
girl friend ,, like it´s samething that happens with boys,, you are not friends with them ,, but you like them in a different way,,, i always thing it´s because my loneliness
and the need of an another ,, girl being friends with me i also don´t have a mom to call and talk about my problems maybe it´s because of that the confusion thanks have a nice day -
Someone made a similar post a while back, and I'll basically tell you what we told her. Don't follow stereotypes. Don't label yourself. If you are interested in girls, then you just are. If you haven't experimented with girls, personally I feel that when I liked someone it isn't based on any particular factor, it is based on the person themselves. I tell people I am bisexual, but really I think of myself as pansexual, not limiting emotion and attraction to anything. Not gender, not age, not race, not social status.
I think that sometimes people can become lonely and will "settle", making them open their views and ideas of dating up, to allow "just anyone" to enter into their lives. My boyfriend was this way, before meeting me, dating anyone who would say yes because he had no friends, and had been hurt and heartbroken so badly he just wanted to feel loved and accepted. I also have a straight friend who dated women just so she could have someone to date, but she wasn't attracted to them, although she liked to experiment and have fun, she says she is straight, but I don't give her a label.
If you ever need a friend to talk to, I am a good listener :) -
Excellent advice Peggi and I second that. We don't need labels...we're just people. I'm a good listener too.
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What's up with different Butterfly Kisses?
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When I bought my Butterfly Kiss I thought there were only 2 versions - the standard and the Platinum Edition. Since I couldn't find the PE in my country I went with the regular one. I was so bent on getting it after watching Kara Sutra's review of it. She said it was TPR. I got my Butterfly Kiss. On the packaging (plastic shell with a piece of paper) it said that it's "phthalate-free" and made of TPR. I'm inclined to believe it as it didn't smell, didn't turn ugly yellow even when I had it for more than a year, didn't sting my bits (jelly does).
Now, however I see those jelly Butterfly Kisses. What's the deal? Was my vibe mis-labeled or are there more than 2 versions? I still have the paper insert from the packaging if you'd like to see it. The vibe itself looks a bit more opaque than what I see in EF catalog - it's always looked like this.
I would also ask people from EF who deal with the Review Program. Is my Butterfly Kiss same as yours (and thus qualifies for a review) or is it a different product? -
Hi there!! California Exotic Novelties was the 1st to come out with this fantastic design. & yes we only have 2 versions, the platinum & the original. Check it out on our website link
Many other companies have tried to duplicate our product but have had no success. We are the original creators with the best product :) Hope this helps! -
All butterfly Kiss items are made from Safe&Pure TPR
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i used this one and after
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my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got off
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Quote: my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got offIt's the jelly - throw it away or always use a condom. Look for better materials like silicone or VixSkin.
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I wouldn't even use a condom...just get rid of it and stay away from the material.
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Jelly Deformation?
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Well I loved this little bugger and it came at a bargain so I suppose I can't complain too much. But I whipped it out for play tonight only to find that the jelly seems to have dented and deformed itself on the lovely bulbous head. I had it in a pocket next to my turbo glider and I suspect with some heat and pressure, that's the culprit that did this. It has very odd dents/suctionish things on it now.
Is this prone to happen to jelly toys? Could it have been the California summer heat? I would like to prevent this from happening in the future.
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It is my experience that jelly toys just deteriorate really fast...the heat may have sped up this process though. I do know heat can cause more phthalates to leak out of jelly. It probably just kind of melted on you a little. I would have to say you should go ahead and get a new one or better yet, find a comparible toy in silicone! Silicone can be boiled so, heat shouldn't be an issue with it at all! It always sucks when one of your favorites melts.
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Does your house get pretty warm? I've never had that problem and I live in AZ. Was it touching the turbo glider? Sounds like a toy material interaction to me.
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great review!
Thanks for the review.
Glad you like this one. Mine found its way to the city dump awhile ago. It is a nice starter though. Thanks for the review.
Thanks for the review!
nice review
Awesome review!