I bought this toy because I wanted to be adventurous. I am a virgin and have never been able to get myself off before, and I have just been getting really bored trying. I saw this rabbit and thought, "Hey, why not?". Five minutes of experimenting...and there it was, while my eyes rolled back into my head. This is a great toy and I find it very stimulating. The highest speed was a bit too much, but the others were very pleasurable. It is not terribly loud unless it's vibrating at its maximum speed. If you like the penetration aspect of this toy, you could use it with lube, or with a condom that's lubricated - water-based lube works very well with this toy. Its length and girth are fun for me; it took me a bit of time to work up to them, but they are worth it. This rabbit is definitely my go-to toy.