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Beginner BDSM on a Budget

Beginner BDSM on a Budget
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Have you ever wanted to try out BDSM without spending tons of money on supplies you don't know you want? Whether you're crafty or not I have compiled a simple list of DIY tools that everyone should try at least once!

  Bondage

Homemade Spreader Bar - Items needed are silk rope, wooden dowel, duct tape and O-ring hooks. Buy a wooden dowel about two feet long and coat it with black (or another fun color) duct tape. Bind your lover’s hands with silk rope, ten or more feet, and hook the rope onto each end of the spreader bar. Your partner’s arms (or legs) should be spread wide and unable to close. This won’t cause pain but they should not be able to move from their bindings, giving you complete control.

Cost - 10 dollars

  Discipline

Bag of Rice Trick - This one is quite simple and all it requires is a simple bag of rice. If your significant other(s) is being naughty there can only be one solution, kneeling in front of their Dom! Sprinkle rice grains onto a hardwood floor and have your partner kneel on top of the rice for as long as it takes for them to regret their earlier behavior.

To increase the allure of this activity, bind your partner’s hands and feet and blindfold them. Use your new blade (see below) to trace lines up and down their shoulders while taunting them or masturbate while watching them. Don’t allow them to help you! Humiliation Play is often used to train a submissive and this trick can allow you to do that easily without having to leave the house for supplies.

Cost - About 1 dollar

  Sadism

Pocket Knife Sadism - Buy a cheap pocket knife at your local hardware store and boil the blade. The blade won’t be used to actually cut into anyone but in case of an accident it is best to have a sanitary blade!

This is an exciting toy as it can be used alone or with a partner. It can also be extremely tame or harsh, be careful with this one!

If you want to use this with little to no danger to you or your partner follow these rules. Dip the blade of your knife into water and place it in the freezer for several minutes. Trace the blade or the blade’s back up and down you or your partners erogenous zones. The frozen aspect of the steel will give the illusion of the blade being much sharper than it actually is. Place a blindfold on your partner before pulling out the blade to increase the illusion of being cut.

Cost - 1-5 dollars

  Masochism

Thin Rubber Tubing - Tie the ends together and make a circle the same diameter as your thigh. Slide the circle up your leg like a garter belt and snap it hard, like you would a rubber band. This pain will be stingy and short and you may be left with tiny red marks. This DIY item is fun because you can use it on yourself and it is close enough to your genitals to take a short break from masturbating to snap the tube.

Cost - 2 dollars

I hope you have learned a few ways to try out each of the BDSM tenants without spending much more than you would on fast food. Enjoy!

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Comments

MMmmmmmm rice on bare knees, pleasure being mine to massage the marks away once the bad one learns his lesson. So nice!

07/21/2012
Katelyn  

Thanks! I was thinking about cheap ways to have a fun night : )

07/23/2012

The tube idea is really interesting !

07/25/2012

Great ideas

07/25/2012
Katelyn  

Thanks you two! I will have another article out soon to go off of the idea in this one : )

07/25/2012

Great article. I think I'm gonna have to buy some rice!

07/27/2012

Good ideas. Makes me want to think of some of my owns, since I'm not able to DIY something big.

07/29/2012
Katelyn  

[http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/advice/beginner-bdsm-a-budget-ii/]

Here's the second article. It has a couple bigger things as well as some small fire play idea. Thanks Trans Marc!

07/31/2012

Really great ideas! Have you seen the videos Bondage for a Buck (.com) ? she has some great stuff too.

08/19/2012

I would have never thought of some of these ideas.

08/25/2012
Sera26  

awesome article

08/31/2012

good article. My Sir and I have started our BDSM collection over the last few months, and we love finding things cheap, and even around the house. I'm expecting a homemade spreader bar for my birthday... *keeping fingers crossed*

09/06/2012

great article

09/08/2012

Great ideas. Thanks.

09/23/2012
Pudyqat  

Very interesting...thanks!

09/28/2012

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