"It is easy to take off all your clothes and have sex; people do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, and dreams...that’s being naked."
When I was growing up sex was a three letter bad word. I remember sitting in the living room watching a movie with my mom. A sex scene would come on and she would say, "Cover your eyes, turn your head!" To this day I find myself turning my head when a sex scene comes on the screen. I know, a 31 year old mother of three scared to look at the screen when a sex scene comes on! What more can I say? I guess it is habit. We were even embarrassed when my mother would go shopping for a new bra and brought us with her. I now sit here and laugh about all of this.
When I first got with my husband sex was sex. We were very vanilla didn't even try sex toys. We married a year and half ago. At that time we still were not very open about our wants and needs with each other. Then a few months ago I happened to hear about EdenFantasys from a friend. This was one of the best things that could have happened. I love EdenFantasys!
Since I have been on this site I have met so many new people. I have learned so much, sometimes more than I think that I need to know about, like my best friend’s and her husband's sex life. But I guess she has seen a side of me that I am sure that she never thought that she would see of me. We joke about it all the time. But I also think it has brought us closer and I would not change a thing about it. We even now consult each other on things that we are going to purchase.
The best thing that I have learned from EdenFantasys is how to be open with my husband. I have been so open with him about my wants and needs I think it has put him in shock. He too has seen a side of me that he has never seen before. I have seen a side of him that I have never seen and it is great. He seems so relaxed and not stressed out about our sex life anymore. EdenFantasys has been the spark that we needed to keep our sex life alive.
I was a little scared the first time I placed an order and it showed up at my house. All I kept thinking was what he is going to think of what I got, or is he even going to be into this kind of thing. To my surprise I think he was more excited than me. When I saw how excited it got him to bring this into our sex life it turned me on more than I have ever been. We have since then tried so many new things that we have found on EdenFantasys. I even have bought my very first piece of lingerie for myself. It made me feel so sexy, and drove him crazy. I love finding things for him on there too. He knows now when the UPS guy comes to the door with that brown box he is in for an interesting night.
I feel so much more comfortable being able to talk to people in the forums that are going through the same thing I am going through. I have gotten so much from people there; everyone is so helpful with their advice. I seek out advice on anything from health problems to lingerie questions. I used to be so nervous but everyone in the forums gives me some great advice on this too.
I feel like a butterfly coming out of its cocoon. I have opened up so much it’s like I really am starting to live now. Not only am I being satisfied sexually, it feels so great to be able to talk about sex without being ashamed. EdenFantasys finally helped me out of the cocoon I was living in for so long!