Put on your best clothes. Pull out that tuxedo you have not worn, pull out that fancy dress you have not been able to find an occasion for. Gel your hair, put it in a nice up-do. Put on some cologne or perfume. Shower, shave, trim your nails, really go all out in making yourself look as fancy as possible. Get a haircut that day if you want and go out feeling like a million bucks. Even if it is to your local diner and you stick out, who cares. The two of you will have a blast. Putting on nice clothes can just really make you feel sexy and desired and show your partner how much you want to look good for them. It is a great way to feel special and fancy without much work or money.
Take a camera or hire a professional photographer and take some photos. Find a nice scenic place. Grab a tripod if you can and put the timer on and take photos together. Make some silly, some sexy, and some serious. It can be fun to do a bunch of poses, try new locations. Take photos of each other. Have a mini fashion shoot and tell each other to “work it baby” and have a blast. The best part is you will have a reminder of your date when you are done. If you want to do something sexy for him, a boudoir session can be fun. Let him pick out an outfit for you and take a bunch of sexy photos. This can be really great if you are planning on going away sometime soon. It will leave him with a constant reminder of you and some “material” if he gets lonely. He can do the same thing and get a sexy photo shoot done for you.
Just hop into the car and drive out into the country. This is especially fun in the spring when you can see some baby animals. Look at farms, look at the local plant life, and just enjoy each other’s company. Enjoy some nice silence, focusing on each other, or put on some of your favorite tunes and you drive. Feel free to get lost and just explore. If you have lived in the city your whole life, it can be neat to see farms, see crops grow, see animals, and it is something not everyone gets to see. Look at local plants and try to guess what they are, or bring a local wildlife book and try and identify it. When you find someplace scenic, feel free to stop for some sparkling juice or a nice snack. Hop in the back of the seat and just watch outdoors. Or, if you are feeling adventurous, have sex in your backseat or manually stimulate each other. My partner and I have found even watching movies in the middle of nowhere is fun. We bring some snacks, a laptop, and just watch a movie on it. The new scenery, which ends up being pitch black, is new and novel.
Spend you evening in candlelight. Light a candle and do not turn on any lights or use any electronic devices. The darkness adds intimacy and you often gradually get closer to each other to keep each other safe. It is a new experience not being surrounded by light all the time. Light a fire and spend the evening curled up beside each other. Just concentrate on each other and focus on your partner. It is also nice to put away the cellphone, not take any calls nor answer any emails. Tell spooky stories or curl up under some blankets. Do be careful if you hop into bed and just set the candle far enough away so you will not knock it over. A very sexy idea is to light 5 to 10 candles and place them around the room and then have sex. Shadows are thrown everywhere, the flames dance along your partners body and you really see them in a new light.
Festival or Carnival or Local Event
Go to a festival or carnival. Get cotton candy, corn dogs, and whatever treat at the fair you like best. Go on all the rides and have fun. Look at yourself in funny mirrors. Be a gentleman and try and win her a stuffed bear. Watch some funny acts. Enter any contests like food eating competitions. Just look around and see everything there is to see. Don’t knock anything, before you see it. You might be surprised what is interesting and entertaining.
A variation is to attend a local rodeo. Pull out all your denim and watch some chuck wagon races. Try riding a mechanical bull. Learn to throw a lasso. Listen to some country music. Just look around and participate in everything.