Go to your local bowling alley and try out bowling. Five pin and 10 pin are both fun. If you are bad at bowling, get a lane with guards on the side that prevent you from throwing a gutter ball. If one of you knows how to bowl, then teach the other. It is nice to be able to have a bit of a competition. Beer and pizza go great with bowling. This is also great for a double date or with other couples. You can get competitive with each other. It is nice to just enjoy some music as you watch each other bowl. Just a fun activity to do.
Mini-golfing is a fun activity. Makes bets on shots (in exchange for sexual favors is lots of fun). Hug each other and kiss. You might get a couple of cold stares from parents, but that’s fine as long as you are appropriate. Keep score. Just have fun. There is something about a childish activity that really makes people laugh and giggle and loosen up. It lets your relive your childhood to a certain extent and that’s normally something we really enjoy. So just let loose and let your inner kid out.
Ice skating can be lots of fun. Put on some warm clothes, grab some hot chocolate, and go skating. Hold hands to help each other balance. Have a race, try and jump and do some tricks, and don’t feel bad about falling down. It can be great outside when there is a fire close to the rink. If it is snowing, it can be a truly wonderful and magical experience. Huddle up for warmth when you get cold. Just spend lots of time learning to skate together and having fun. You could also bring some hockey sticks and play hockey.
Drive In Movie
Drive in movie theaters can be lots of fun. Grab your own snacks and popcorn. Find a movie you will both like and go to it. Put down your back seats, grab a sleeping bag and some blankets and pillows, and really relax while watching the movie. Feel free to kiss and grope as no one else will see you. Oftentimes they are double features so you really get some good time together. This can also be fun to bring sex toys and tease each other the entire time through clothes. Enjoy some popcorn and yummy drinks. Feed each other one kernel at a time. Feed each other candies. Be like high school students at a movie and make out for lots of it. This is a great chance to just relax in a car with your significant other. Plus who doesn’t like a good movie. Read up on some reviews and find something that will be good.
This activity is illegal, so you can get in trouble, but if you pick a remote spot chances are you will never get caught. Find a nice lake, wait till midnight on a nice starry evening, throw off your clothes and hop in the lake. Go for a midnight swim. Do be careful because if you get into trouble there is likely no help. Hop into his arms and kiss him. Re-enact a cheesy movie scene. As horrible as it sounds, it is actually a lot of fun. After you are done skinny dipping, run around naked on the beach. If you are really adventurous, throw down a towel and have sex. Watching each other’s bodies in the moonlight can be very erotic and sexy. And there is such a big adrenaline rush of doing something illegal even if no one is around. There is always the fear of what if we get caught in the back of your mind. Your heart races, your body shakes and it just adds to the fun of it all.
Go swimming at a local pool. It’s a great way to get some exercise and have some fun. Outdoor pools are great fun in the summer because you can soak up some rays at the same time. Work on your tan or just enjoy the sun. When you get too hot, hop into the pool. Have races in the pool, throw a ball around, build a raft with all the pool mats, or play in the children’s section where the jets are. Hop into the hot tub and get close to each other and feel the tension drain away from your muscles. Spend some time in a sauna getting nice and hot. Water is just lots of fun and swimming is great. You can also try swimming out at a lake. Swim out to a buoy and back. Swim off the side of a boat. Dive down to the bottom and see what you can find. After you are done swimming, take a shower together. A family chance room can be a fun place to touch each other, have some touching, and get in the mood before you rush off home.