"You men have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement and jaw stress and suction and gag reflex. And all the while bobbing up and down, moaning, and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a "job" for nothing."
1. Lubrication
There are a variety of flavored lubes out there but while they can be fun to try out they aren't necessary. Unlike women, men aren't prone to infections. I suggest something from your fridge or cupboard that you really enjoy, such as chocolate, caramel or my all time favorite, honey. Yum!
Now if you aren't down with getting super messy there is another sexy tip that I have for you. Yes, I learned it from porn. Remember to watch your porn, folks. Although just using your mouth on him can give you enough lubrication, I've found that it's fun for them if you spit. I'm not great at working up huge loogies (like in porn) while giving oral sex, but even a little spit seems to liven up the mood for him.
2. Use Everything You've Got
Yes, you can give a hummer with just your mouth but why not use everything at your disposal? I like to go back and forth from blow job to hand job. Plus if you aren't up for deep throating continuously, and who is, then try using your hand at the base to take some of the pressure off of your mouth. While we are mentioning incorporating hands, don't forget you have two! So don't make one hand do all of the work. Switch them up. I also like to use two at once. You should try this gently at first. If you're man isn't into pain, he may feel more like he's receiving an Indian burn than some lovely fun.
Do you have a tongue piercing? Awesome, so do I. I recommend licking the tip of the penis every so often with the piercing to give him a thrill. Even if you aren't pierced I bet that doing this will keep him on his toes.
I also recommend my side to side technique. This means that sometimes I move his penis from each side of my mouth, effectively having the tip hit my inner cheeks. This is fun for a few minutes.
3. Positions
Yes, it's very easy for him to just lay on his back while you go to town but after a while this can definitely give you a neck cramp. Having him sit on the edge of the bed while you kneel on a pillow is definitely an easy switch up. You can also have him stand (depending on your heights) and perform the same way (if his legs don't easily turn to jelly). Another position that some love (but I'll pass on) is for you to lie back while he has sex with your mouth. I'm not into this because he may go too fast or deep and I like to be in control.
4. Don't Forget the Twins
Yes, he has testicles. It's easy to bypass them and just focus on his member, but many men love to have them played with a bit. Try a few different moves to see what he likes. Does he just want gentle fondling, a bit of hair pulling (if he goes au natural) or even slapping down there (some like it rough)?
5. A Bit of Pain?
As I've briefly mentioned above, such as a bit of ball slapping, some men (and of course women, but we are mainly focusing on him right now) love to incorporate some pain into their sex life. This can include oral sex.
I would never just lightly bite someone. However if he asks then go for it, just be gentle and ask him how hard he likes it. Yes, some men like a bit of teeth on their penis. Are there other bits of pain that he likes? If you are multi-talented you can do those simultaneously. For instance, you can scratch, smack or pinch the parts of his body that he gets off on when you have a free hand. Does he want a very firm grip? When adding in your hand job fun, ask how hard he likes it. It may be rougher than you'd have thought.