*Note: Before I begin this article, I would like to say that this article conveys my personal experiences and opinions. The thoughts conveyed may not apply to everyone.
Not all women are unwilling to go to strip clubs and watch a stripper dance on a pole. In fact, for some, this is a turn on; it makes them feel bad and naughty, and then the sex later that night is usually wild. Also, I believe that guys will be guys. By this, I mean that no matter how attached and committed guys are, they still love seeing boobs being flashed. They still love seeing a hot chick going up and down on a pole. You see, in their brain, the quantity matters the most. It's not because he doesn't care for the quality of his woman, but because the stimulation of the penis is very easy, so he can enjoy sex quickly. For women, it isn't the same. The quality of the sex is better than quantity for women. That being said, women (not all) don't really prefer many partners, as long as their partner is good at what he does.
Another thing is this: some women think it's smarter to go with their guys to a strip club. Some even like getting him a dance, and watching him enjoy it. That is not because she is worried that he might wanna cheat on her, and so she want to watch his every moves; it's actually quite the contrary. Women want to show their partners that they understand their sexual needs, fantasies, and that they want them to have it. They also want to hang out with their partners and spend time together, which in return builds more trust. This also shows understanding and love between the two of them. It also helps them spice up things between them, changing the pace a bit. Some women that have open minds about the idea of multiple partners are even willing to do threesomes afterwards. I know one of my girlfriends paid a stripper in Texas to have sex with her and her boyfriend, and she told me it was hot.
Additionally, girls like to go out to strip clubs for women. Watching a guy strip down slowly and tease the audience is also a hot thing for women. This is where you can fantasize and dream, you know? Women also like getting lap dances and being teased, just like men. That is all natural, and so it is not a crime, ladies, if you decide to go with your girlfriends to a strip club for a night out. Just have some fun.
I am not trying to generalize here; I know many of you might read this article and say, oh this is just another "Cosmo-type" article, but it is not. I have seen and heard many people who say that girls should not go to strip clubs, that it is bad for girls to go there, and finally, that girls don't like strip clubs. Personally I am a fan of strippers; in fact, I do wish I could pole dance. It's just so hot. It is true that some girls and women might find it uninteresting or unappealing to watch a male or female stripper, but you cannot generalize that way about everyone. Another thing is that there are different kinds of strip clubs. My personal advice is to watch different types of stripping videos on the internet, see what attracts your attention, and find out which one you seem to like the most. You can watch more videos to get yourself in the mood, and then if you are willing to step it up a notch, look for a strip club in your vicinity that has that kind of stripping you like. You could go with a friend, girlfriend or boyfriend, or even alone. It's all about experimenting and getting to know yourself. Fid out what you like. There is no shame, and there's nothing wrong with that.
My final words are this: I am not encouraging anyone to go, or to not go, to strip clubs. I am also not saying whether strip clubs are good or bad. All I am saying is this: guys: if your girl offers to go to a strip club and buy you a dance, it doesn't mean that she is testing you. It also doesn't mean that she doesn't trust you. You should go on, and take that offer.
Ladies, it is perfectly natural to have fantasies and desires. Some of your fantasies definitely won't be satisfied through your partner, and that is 100% natural and normal. So, don't feel bad if you went with your friends and enjoyed some sexy stripping. After all, you only live life once, so make it count.