Introducing porn into a relationship!

There are a lot of couples that like to watch porn together, but on the other hand sometimes only the man or the woman likes it. Believe me, I know it can be hard to talk to them about it or try to get them to watch it. Hopefully today I will be covering some good topics that will help you in your relationship with porn. Always be respectful to each others wishes and don’t disrespect each other. This article could help either of you with your wishes.

First off I’ll tell you from my own experience that some women don’t like to watch it because the think that it is nasty to watch others having sex, or other women. Well that’s not the only reason. My reason was that it felt as though I was being compared to the women in the movie. I would think to myself that I am not good enough so he has to watch other women sexually. I also thought that maybe if I didn't watch it with him that he would get mad, or lose sexual interest in me (which was not the case at all).

Now women, don’t close him off when he tries to talk to you about watching porn with him. I made that mistake at first, and then it felt like we couldn't talk about anything like we should be able to. So I started talking about possibly watching it with him. Finally I agreed to watch it thinking in the back of my mind that I would HATE it. We found one that we both might be interested in and watched it together. The longer I watched, the more I started to enjoy it. Keep in mind that just because you don’t like the first one doesn't mean you won't like any. There are others and each is different. Watch what is most appealing to both of you before you make your mind up about it.

As I watch porn, I don’t think it’s nasty at all anymore. I love it not just because of the sex if that’s what you’re thinking. Truthfully it can be informational. I learn new tricks and new moves to try on my man, and I know you will too. By watching it together we also find out new things about each other, like something that turns us on that we didn’t think would. Or even something we want done to us but didn’t know how or were too embarrassed to talk about. The longer I have watched it the more I know that he isn’t comparing me to anyone (like he will ever even meet those girls). It’s just something that turns him on, and turns him on that I also enjoy watching it as well.

So girls, please don’t be all judgmental about your man watching porn. Ask him yourself why he likes to watch it so much. Tell him what you are insecure about, that you're afraid you aren’t good enough for him. He’ll explain it to you I’m sure. Guys don’t push your woman into watching it. Take it slow. Be truthful with her and tell her why you like it. Tell her what turns you on about it. Don’t be too embarrassed to talk about it. Be open and be honest. You might like the outcome, and you might like something new.