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Life As An Aspiring Cam Girl

Life As An Aspiring Cam Girl
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I am a 20 year old Canadian female. I am also an aspiring cam girl. As a cam girl, I'll take you into my experience; weird viewers, awkward situations, hilarious moments, and voyeuristic orgasms. Sure, there are ups and downs. Mostly, they happen while riding a toy. Being a cam girl isn't nearly fun as you think. It's a lot of work; building a fan base, working out, making yourself presentable, listening to demands, dealing with creeps... Well, that's a whole other article on its own.

  Why is jerking off this much work?



I thought for the longest time that jerking off was the only aspect of being a cam girl that there was. It seems to me that I'm wrong an awful lot, when it comes to things being easier than they look. If you think filling out forms online is annoying, try filling out an "About Me” bio. This sounds like it should be easy, but then you realize your bio is used for EVERYTHING. It's not just for saying a few things about yourself. It's also where you post your Room Rules, F.A.Q.'s, potential contests, and contact info. Oh, and then your bio. Then there's your wishlist, which is great. Because with a wishlist, there are different possible lists, contact info, and sign in info.

It doesn't stop there, however. Then, there are pictures and videos to upload. They can be free, or they can be paid for. However, now you have to get dressed up, find nice lingerie, stay in shape, and work with awkward camera angles. The weird thing is, it's always the most awkward, uncomfortable angles and poses that look the best in the photo. Don't ask me why, I couldn't tell you. More often than not, you're left completely alone to do all these video and picture shoots, which is even more awkward. Among other things that you can sell, there is also your phone number, your Skype, and just about any other personal contact info that you don't mind sharing with thousands of folks. If you're a cam girl for long enough, there's no doubt that you'll start selling your panties, as well. I'm serious, just that on its own is a job.

  Cum One, Cum All, Welcoming All the Freaks and Geeks!



The heading might sound foolish, but pause for a second. Being in the sex trade, you encounter a lot of fetishes. How many fetishes can you count? I've lost track. I don't think I can count all the fetishes I've been requested to accommodate, and I'm sure there are more to come. The site I work for has a few fetishes that are pretty common; feet, smoking, anal, thigh-high stockings, boobs, and double penetration, to name a few. However, every now and then you get something out of the box. For example, a man asking for me to roleplay as his dirty, slutty, nine year old daughter. As a woman going on twenty one years old, I challenge you to act that one out. Of course, there's also the BDSM fetishes; small penis humiliation, spanking, tit-slapping, making boys my sissies, rape scenarios, impregnation fantasies, and so much more. You name it, it's out there. Frankly, I have no problem accommodating my viewers. However, every now and then, you need to recover from general shock.

I don't think I've found a fantasy yet that could surprise me. Sometimes, like trying to act as a nine year old girl, fantasies are a little outside of my acting range. Honestly, that's expected to happen. Although I feel bad when I can't perform as requested, I feel as though I've probably done myself a favour. Now, not only do I know my challenges, but I also know whether or not I'm comfortable playing out fantasies. Being someone's slave or Femdom is one thing. Pretending to be a cat, however, is a whole other story.

I like learning about these fetishes, though. They actually generally intrigue me. So, here is my challenge to you, my dear reader... Tell me all about the weird fetishes you have, or maybe even ask about my experiences with specific fetishes. Maybe it's a fetish you have yourself, or maybe you happened to learn about one on a YouTube video, or while browsing Reddit. I want to hear it all!

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Damn, being a cam girl sounds worse than being a porn star. At least in porn you know what you're getting into before you start a scene. With camming you're interacting with your audience live.

It's quite a different experience for both a reader and a performer. It's better than a stripper in the sense that they can't touch you, but worse at the same time. A stripper can completely ignore her audience's kinky/freaky remarks. Camgirls have to deal with them!

Luckily for me I'm a regular guy. One of my buggest turn ons is a genuine full on screaming orgasm. And if I'm the cause? *Score!*

04/21/2013

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