About one year ago, my husband found an ad in Maxim Magazine. Little did I know that this ad would change my life completely.
In the last few pages of ads in Maxim, listed next to many other adult ads, was an ad with one of the most beautiful vibrators I had ever seen. It was a lovely magenta colored rabbit style vibrator with the most unique shape ever. I immediately lusted after this stunning toy. So, I went to the website to make an account.
At first, the only reason I made an account was to see what kind of coupon offers were available. But as I started playing around with the site I found so much more! There was a whole community of welcoming individuals. They offered helpful advice to help navigate the site. Wandering around the site some more, I stumbled across the review program and quickly began writing reviews. Once my reviews were published, the welcoming community didn't stop there. They made helpful comments to help improve my reviews. These comments sent me in the direction of the mentor program.
When I first started to review, I only had owned a handful of sex toys that I used. My collection of sex toys was purchased at our local adult store. This consisted of many plastic bullets, a few plastic traditional vibrators, and one PVC rabbit vibrator. I was very limited in what I could offer to the site because I was stubborn about what toys I was going to use. I had no knowledge about the safety of materials. I thought to myself "Well, they wouldn't make it if it wasn't body safe." I was so wrong. Luckily, I didn't find out the hard way. I've never had a bad reaction to any material or ingredient.
These helpful members helped clue me in on what makes for a great sex toy, what materials aren't the greatest, but still have their place for those who enjoy them, what ingredients are known to be allergy causing, and the list goes on. This helped me open my doors to an all new world of sex toys.
My first exploration was into the wonderful world of glass toys. My first reaction to glass toys was the same as everyone else's. "What if it breaks off inside me?" But after reading review after review, I quickly learned that there was no worry of this happening. Boy, did I feel silly.
Within the first month that I had become a member, this wonderful community had already broken my stubbornness. I began exploring and I delved into all the different options of materials, designs, sizes, styles, and anything else.
As I started exploring the world of sex toys, I also began exploring my own body better. I knew how to have a clitoral orgasm, but I wasn't certain on how to have a G-spot orgasm. I could orgasm during oral sex, but I could only orgasm during penetration if I used a clitoral vibrator. My Miracle Massager changed all that.
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Having heard all the wonderful things about the legendary Hitachi, I quickly decided I needed a large massager. However, I didn't feel up to spending the price of Hitachi when the Miracle Massager was half the price. This powerful large massager quickly became my favorite vibrator the first time I used it. After some use during solo, we decided to use it during intercourse.
At first my husband wasn't too happy with the large massager that close to his private parts because every once in a while they would rub him and it would usually be the wrong way. But since he could see I was enjoying myself, he didn't complain too much. Finally, I was able to relax enough to help bring on orgasm, but little did I know this orgasm would be special.
As I kept getting closer to orgasm, I wanted to stop because I felt like I was going to pee, which isn't a kink for us. But I continued to keep trying to have an orgasm, but hoping to myself that I don't pee the bed. And then I could no longer hold it in. My whole vagina contracted and sprayed out this fluid everywhere! It was running up my chest, soaked the bed, and ran down my husband.
We stopped right away. I felt embarrassed because I thought I had peed on him. But something told me I should smell the fluid. So, I did. There was no smell. It wasn't urine? What just happened? I looked over at my husband and said it's not urine. There is no smell! I think I just came! Wore out from that whole experience we laid a towel down and went to bed. The next night we worked on trying again. And we succeeded. There was still no smell. I had actually squirted!
I had heard of squirting before because of Nina Hartley's video The Guide to the Female Orgasm. I was a little skeptic to this and thought those girls sure looked like they are peeing. Boy was I wrong!
Ever since initially learning to squirt, I have been able to train myself to do it more often. Sadly, this isn't the case for every woman. I seem to be one of the lucky ones who just happened to figure out she can do it and what it takes. Now, I can do it within minutes, but I can't explain how to help others get there.
For a short time, I thought I was a bit of a freak. And I was bothered when my partner would make comments about how much fluid there was. But after seeing the numerous posts on the forum about other ladies who could do it, I realized I was not a freak. I'm completely normal. Well, as much as I can be normal.
Understanding my body and understanding what my body likes helped change my sex life completely. I've come to enjoy sex more then I ever have. I've learned to love myself so much more everyday. None of this would have happened had we not found that ad in Maxim. None of this would be possible without the loving community I fell into. None of this would be possible without EdenFantasys.com.
Eden has changed so many things for me! I'm truly grateful that I found this wonderful place and the wonderful people that are here also. This is my home away from home. It's full of nonjudgmental people that help make the site a wonderful and sex positive community! Thank you to Eden! Thank you to the community! And thank you for placing the ad in Maxim. I never would have found this site without my husband’s subscription.
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