Every girl wants to reach that big 'O' moment and there are so many things out there that are made to help us. There are all kinds of condoms that are ribbed, studded, have special lubes and a million other things. But have you ever thought of having sex without a condom? Now I'm sure most of you have birth control, or the older women who have already had kids may have had their tubes tied. But for those of us who are too afraid to get birth control, condoms have been the only way. Ladies, I urge you to give it a try.

I have always had difficulty having an orgasm during sex. Mine are usually achieved during foreplay or with a toy, but my recent boyfriend has urged me to try birth control because it can be just as fun for me as it is for him. And so I took the leap. I went to my gyno and got myself on the pill. It's been about a month since I started taking the pill and when I got the ok that everything was working well...it was like fireworks people. My boyfriend and I have been having sex like rabbits and holy cow is it amazing.

Not only do you feel him and every little stroke, but the overall feeling is just mind blowing. Every movement is intensified and when he finishes inside you...WOW!!! I'm sorry if this is a little graphic for you, but I really think every woman should try this. I've never experienced orgasms like this and I never leave unsatisfied. To be quite honest having this amazing sex life is really a good thing all around. Our relationship is a little more geared towards sex at the moment but I have no complaints.

Having a great sex life is all part of having a great relationship. I'm sure most of you have had less than satisfying sexual encounters and while you may like the guy, the chemistry between the sheets isn't all there. Let's face it, that sucks. And in order to have a really strong relationship, you need to have strong connections in every aspect of it. Maybe this could help. Toys are a great way to get things going, but sometimes it's just nice to be with your partner. No toys, no special lubes or condoms, just the two of you. Sex without a condom can really be a great way to do this.

I'm not saying just go screw your boyfriend without a condom, that would just be all kinds of irresponsible, but maybe look towards other contraception options. There's always birth control, diaphragms, and cervical caps. I would never recommend the pull out method because for one accidents happen, and two 10% of women get pregnant due to traces of sperm in the males pre-cum. This is something I think we all want to avoid so let's just be safe and use a form of contraception.

But getting back to my original point, sex without a condom is an amazing experience and I urge all women to try it. If you're afraid like me, don't be. Medically, birth control has come a long way and most of the side effects are minimal and or rarely seen. So why not take the small risk and experience the Big 'O.'

Editor's note: The opinions expressed in this article belong to the author, and do not, in any way, reflect on the opinions of SexIs Magazine or our parent company, EdenFantasys. The responsible thing to do, if one is involved in non-monogamous sex, is to use some barrier method to avoid transmission or contraction of sexually transmitted infections or diseases. However, this is a personal choice, and SexIs Social is committed to allowing everyone to express their opinion respectfully and freely. Please read responsibly.