Dirty pictures can be a great way to stay connected to your significant other while you are apart from each other. If you are gone for school, have work away from them, or are separated for any reasons, some dirty photos can provide you with enjoyment. They can also help keep communication between the two of you. They start up discussion and sexy chatting, they remind you of each other, they provide stimulus for masturbation, and they remind you of your connection to each other.
Decide your comfort zone
The first thing you are going to need to do when sending some racy photos is you need to decide your comfort level. How much do you trust your partner is a good thing to ask first. Pictures can be bad if they get released out. It can be embarrassing, but I am going to assume you completely trust your partner. Next is to decide how comfortable you feel showing what. Not everybody feels comfortable naked, and that is okay. The first step is to decide if you want something to be subtly sexy or if you want it to be hard core and very revealing. It is important to decide what you feel comfortable with and start there. Remember you can also change this decision later.
When you actually decide to take your photo, you are going to need light, but it is important to think about what light you are taking the picture under. Find a light that makes you look good. Fluorescent lights can make your skin tone look weird. I find natural light tends to work nicely. So a spot by an open window might work well. Or in a more wide open area of your house. Experiment, try dimming the lights, try moving around your house or your room till you find something that looks good. Keep in mind shadows. Shadows can also make you look a bit funny, so just be mindful of them.
Angles make anyone look better. Just look at some professional photography. It is never a straight on body shot, because angles make everyone look better. Try experimenting with them. Try pointing the camera upwards, downwards, to the side. Every which way you can think of. Just because you take the photo doesn’t mean you have to send it. And also think of angling your body. If you have a little bit of a tummy, arching your back can smooth it out. Twisting your torso can also do the same thing. A great idea for coming up with poses is to just Google stuff. Look online, in magazines, and check out the angles they use. You can then just replicate them and try them out. You might like what you get.
Snapping the Photo
A timer on a camera can make the process easier. It can give you time to set up, and if you can set it to make multiple photos, this can really make it easier. That way you get a bunch to choose from. If you do not have a timer, it makes it a bit trickier trying to hold the pose and take the photo. A mirror can really help in this scenario. It can make it easier to get the shot of yourself that you want.
Work Your Way Up
If you have never sent dirty photos before, don’t feel like they need to start out crazy. Photos with you being fully clothed can be super sexy. If you put on a fun outfit, have a fun pose, and have a cute expression you can drive your partner wild without taking any clothes off. When you get positive feedback from your partner, then it can help you to get more comfortable and shed a little bit. Next time you might take off your shirt, then strip down to your underwear, then you might try something completely naked. It is fine to take it slow. Once you are naked, you don’t need to show everything right away either. Throw a hand over your nipples, take a shot that ends at the top of your cleavage, take a shot that ends at your hips. Be coy about your photos and just barely exclude what your partner wants to see.
Taking it slow can actually add to the process. Your partner will want more and more, and you can tease him. You can tell him you spent all day taking photos and slowly send them over the course of a week. Each time you get slightly more naked. This can be great fun and drive your partner crazy.
You can also add captions and actions to your photos. I know I love to know my partner gets off. So take some photos of yourself masturbating, or playing with toys. Let your partner know you are aroused thinking of them. Describe what was going through your mind, or keep them guessing. Having actions and captions can just add to the experience that much more.
Above all else, remember that your partner is attracted to you. And no matter what you send, they will enjoy it. If your partner likes you, then you honestly cannot screw up a photo. They will appreciate the sentiment, and they will appreciate the material. So feel comfortable with yourself. There is a reason your partner is dating you/married to you, because they find you attractive.
As always if you have any questions feel free to ask in the comments.