Being able to perform a sultry strip tease will provide an essential intimate connection between you and your lover that neither of you will soon forget. Not only will it make you feel sexy and boost your own self-confidence, but it can enable the very same feelings in your partner. Not only because it’s a tell-tale sign that paves the way to sex but because you put forth the time and effort to pull it off. This should let him know just how special he is and that he was on your mind during the preparations. Below is an outline for unleashing your inner exotic dancer.
Shop around for some sexy attire. Let’s say...something elegantly naughty. Yes, I like that classically sexy yet modern type burlesque perhaps (you’re not aiming for cheap slut). You’re sure to find something titillating no matter what your style is. I highly suggest you include stockings and garters to give you something to do with your hands. Vintage inspired hosiery with back seams are my personal favorite. Opt for sensuous fabrics. Don something soft to the touch that will feel sensual as it caresses your lover’s skin! A sequined dress may be sparkly and appear fun, but a velvety dress for example just feels better to the touch, not to mention how well it can enhance your curves!
Including a feather boa (leave real boa constrictors to the professionals) or a fedora hat can add a level of depth and functionality. For example, placing the boa around his neck to pull his face into your bust can be much more exciting than simply using your hands to do the same thing if you choose to do so. A fedora can be taken from your head and placed on his as a bonus inclusion strategy. Furthermore, it can be utilized as a prop to cover various parts of you for further teasing.
Let’s not forget about perhaps the sexiest piece of your ensemble...heels! High heeled shoes are undoubtedly going to make your legs appear longer, probably leaner and even give your butt a boost! Choose a pair with a heel height and width that you will feel secure with wearing while hovering seductively over your lover. I find the 4 or 5 inch heels work best for me but you may find you’re teetering about or your ankles could buckle. It’s better to go with a shorter heel, if needed, than to find yourself on your face or worse during a time that is supposed to be super sexy.
Next, choose a song that makes you feel alluring. One which has a smooth, slow tempo is optimum in comparison to the latest club hopping jam. Pick a track that makes you feel incredibly hot as soon as you hear it. Practice, practice, practice! Battling with your hot new hosiery and garters has the potential to transform your striptease into a comedy routine. Prior to your performance, do a dress rehearsal by yourself in a mirror.
There are some elements that seem to go without saying such as having a fresh shave or wax, tending to your hair and make-up and dabbing on his favorite scent are all very important in the grand scheme of things.
Most of all make sure to have fun. Set the mood with some candles or low lighting, and perhaps a nice glass of wine. A striptease should be fun and sexy so don’t take yourself too seriously and your night will be one to remember for the both of you!