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BDSM 101: What websites to join and which ones to avoid

BDSM 101: What websites to join and which ones to avoid http://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe,_Sane,_Consensual
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When you first find the world of BDSM, one of the things that you probably want to do is learn as much as you can. A good way to do that is join a fetish website so that you can connect with like-minded individuals. But like with everything else, there are both good and bad websites.

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Collarme does have a lot of fakes, I'll agree. But if you are trying to find someone to start a relationship with, I'd rather go to collarme than FetLife, just due to the ability to find people based on certain parameters. FetLife is strictly designed for social networking, which is great as well, but it's very difficult to try to find someone to have a relationship with there. Also, for someone who is trying to be underground, yet still find people with similar interests, unfortunately FetLife is too open for me. I've actually been able to find some pretty decent conversationalists and potential matches on collarme lately. A lot more than I have been able to in past years. I'm not sure if most of the fakes are just getting bored with it or what, but the maturity level of the messages I get have been higher, on average. I have found a few messages that have me shaking my head, but then I got those on FetLife when I was still on there, too.

12/23/2012

Do you visit Slave Register? It's long been one of my favorites.

12/26/2012

I agree about it being "really easy" to find people via fetlife--- all profiles are public (once your have an account), and once you know one friend's profile you can start finding other friends through their friendslist/s. I mostly enjoy fetlife for its events page. I think okcupid makes for the best free dating, though that too has its cons, but I still know quite a few of my friends who are into BDSM/kink who also use that

12/26/2012

This all sounds so amazing! I typically go to Deviantclip.com, but i will deff check some of these out!

01/01/2013

Hmm. Great article! Very interesting. Now i want to explore them. lol Even just for a few laughs.

01/10/2013

Great article

01/14/2013
Coalba  

I feel so proud for having a fetlife now! Glad to see you approve

01/17/2013

I love FetLife as well and am glad I never spent time on the dud sites. I'll see you there if I haven't already!

03/08/2013

Fetlife has its own issues, but for now it is the best.

05/25/2013
Dom guy  

CM is as the author states. 95% of the people are playing online games and not real about anything. if you want online only...go there. if not, stay away. online only does little for me, so I will not go back, myself.

Apr 17, 4:25 pm
masterquinn  

sorry, but fet life is worthless for making a connection

Jul 2, 10:41 pm

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