1. Touch
The easiest way to make someone feel sexy, in my opinion, is to just touch them whenever you get a chance. When I come home I love to pick my girlfriend off the ground, spin her around once and kiss her. I like to come up behind her and give her a big hug as a surprise. Rub against her in public, hold her hand, stroke her hair when I am beside her in bed. Lots of small touches throughout the day to let her know I am always thinking about her.
2 Compliments
I like to compliment my girlfriend, especially about the things she likes about herself and the things she doesn’t like about herself. I like to comment on her eyes and her hips because she really likes those parts. But I like to compliment her on her breasts and her ears because she is self-conscious about those. I want her to know everything about her is sexy.
3 Oral Sex
Another way I make her feel sexy is by giving her oral sex frequently. Oral sex is all about her. It is all focused on her, so I think it shows I care about her. It is an unselfish act that shows love and affection, and a desire to be sexual with her. I find sometimes there is some resistance when she feels unsexy, but if you move up a bit and nibble on nipples and suck on breasts, and lick the thighs she relaxes a bit, and then when she lets me go down on her, she really enjoys it and it really picks up her mood.
4 Plan Date Nights
You can really make someone you care for feel sexy by planning a date night for them. I find one of the best nights that creates the most excitement is a surprise date night. I like to say we are having a date night, but not tell what we are doing. Then I tell her to bring along items, some of them necessary, some of them fake items to keep her guessing. Like bring a beach towel, comfy clothes, and an umbrella, but then take her to the spa. It just shows you care and makes her feel desired.
5 Dress Up Fancy
My girlfriend, personally, loves putting on a fancy dress and putting on make-up and putting her hair in a fancy do. So I go out of my way to find events where we can dress up fancy, or create a situation where we can. I cook a fancy dinner and tell her to dress up, and I dress up too. Or we go to a fancy restaurant. Sometimes we are over-dressed, but we never really care. We just have a good time. Letting her really focus on her physical appearance will make some women feel sexy.
6 Buying Flowers or a Small Gift
Picking up flowers, a box of candy, writing a personal letter, or getting a new shirt, all make people feel sexy. So pick up anything for them really. The more personal the better. Get her her favorite kind of flowers, her favorite kind of chocolate, something she has been talking about for the last little while and give it to her just because.
7 Giving Massages
A great thing to do instead of watching TV in bed is to tell your partner to get naked and for them to flip on their back. Then hop on top of them, open a bottle of massage oil, (get a massager if you have one. One of those stone or plastic ones), and give them a massage. While you are doing that tell them about your day, talk about your goals for the week, compliment her, talk about whatever. Communicating and a massage really make most women feel comfortable, in my past experience.
8 Cooking
Plan a fancy meal just for her, especially something new or something that is her favorite. Taking the time to cook for her gives her a chance to relax when she gets home (this is assuming she normally cooks which is my current situation) and it gives you a chance to tell her how sexy she is. It gives you a chance to show how much you desire her and that you wanted to do something special, like cook for her.
9 Baths Together
If you have a Jacuzzi, then buy some bubble bath or a bath bomb, and run a bath for the two of you. Carry her up the stairs and show her the bath you made for the both of you. Baths are relaxing, and also provide lots of easy access to touch each other. Jets can also be fun for her if you position yourselves the right way.
10 Honesty
I am honest with my partner. I tell her when a shirt looks bad. I tell her when her hair is messy. I tell her when she looks a bit tired or sick today. I also always tell her I do not care, and that I still love her just as much. But when you are honest, you make your other compliments feel more realistic. It lets her know that you truly mean them when you say them, and they hold more weight when you do. So, sometimes let her know that today isn’t her best day, but that also lets her know when you say she’s having an amazing day, it really means she is having an amazing day.
Those are 10 things I have found that make my girlfriend feel sexy and attractive, and I think they apply to lots of other people too. If you have any questions or want to share how you make your partner feel sexy please share in the comments.
The easiest way to make someone feel sexy, in my opinion, is to just touch them whenever you get a chance. When I come home I love to pick my girlfriend off the ground, spin her around once and kiss her. I like to come up behind her and give her a big hug as a surprise. Rub against her in public, hold her hand, stroke her hair when I am beside her in bed. Lots of small touches throughout the day to let her know I am always thinking about her.
2 Compliments
I like to compliment my girlfriend, especially about the things she likes about herself and the things she doesn’t like about herself. I like to comment on her eyes and her hips because she really likes those parts. But I like to compliment her on her breasts and her ears because she is self-conscious about those. I want her to know everything about her is sexy.
3 Oral Sex
Another way I make her feel sexy is by giving her oral sex frequently. Oral sex is all about her. It is all focused on her, so I think it shows I care about her. It is an unselfish act that shows love and affection, and a desire to be sexual with her. I find sometimes there is some resistance when she feels unsexy, but if you move up a bit and nibble on nipples and suck on breasts, and lick the thighs she relaxes a bit, and then when she lets me go down on her, she really enjoys it and it really picks up her mood.
4 Plan Date Nights
You can really make someone you care for feel sexy by planning a date night for them. I find one of the best nights that creates the most excitement is a surprise date night. I like to say we are having a date night, but not tell what we are doing. Then I tell her to bring along items, some of them necessary, some of them fake items to keep her guessing. Like bring a beach towel, comfy clothes, and an umbrella, but then take her to the spa. It just shows you care and makes her feel desired.
5 Dress Up Fancy
My girlfriend, personally, loves putting on a fancy dress and putting on make-up and putting her hair in a fancy do. So I go out of my way to find events where we can dress up fancy, or create a situation where we can. I cook a fancy dinner and tell her to dress up, and I dress up too. Or we go to a fancy restaurant. Sometimes we are over-dressed, but we never really care. We just have a good time. Letting her really focus on her physical appearance will make some women feel sexy.
6 Buying Flowers or a Small Gift
Picking up flowers, a box of candy, writing a personal letter, or getting a new shirt, all make people feel sexy. So pick up anything for them really. The more personal the better. Get her her favorite kind of flowers, her favorite kind of chocolate, something she has been talking about for the last little while and give it to her just because.
7 Giving Massages
A great thing to do instead of watching TV in bed is to tell your partner to get naked and for them to flip on their back. Then hop on top of them, open a bottle of massage oil, (get a massager if you have one. One of those stone or plastic ones), and give them a massage. While you are doing that tell them about your day, talk about your goals for the week, compliment her, talk about whatever. Communicating and a massage really make most women feel comfortable, in my past experience.
8 Cooking
Plan a fancy meal just for her, especially something new or something that is her favorite. Taking the time to cook for her gives her a chance to relax when she gets home (this is assuming she normally cooks which is my current situation) and it gives you a chance to tell her how sexy she is. It gives you a chance to show how much you desire her and that you wanted to do something special, like cook for her.
9 Baths Together
If you have a Jacuzzi, then buy some bubble bath or a bath bomb, and run a bath for the two of you. Carry her up the stairs and show her the bath you made for the both of you. Baths are relaxing, and also provide lots of easy access to touch each other. Jets can also be fun for her if you position yourselves the right way.
10 Honesty
I am honest with my partner. I tell her when a shirt looks bad. I tell her when her hair is messy. I tell her when she looks a bit tired or sick today. I also always tell her I do not care, and that I still love her just as much. But when you are honest, you make your other compliments feel more realistic. It lets her know that you truly mean them when you say them, and they hold more weight when you do. So, sometimes let her know that today isn’t her best day, but that also lets her know when you say she’s having an amazing day, it really means she is having an amazing day.
Those are 10 things I have found that make my girlfriend feel sexy and attractive, and I think they apply to lots of other people too. If you have any questions or want to share how you make your partner feel sexy please share in the comments.
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