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Why are kinky people kinky? http://www.wildeshops.com/w/p/316/barbie-murders-bondage-04-print
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I'm interested in why BDSM appeals to some people and not others. There isn’t any conclusive reason available but I consider theories related to pathology, genetics, and early development.

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nightwing  

Great article. I posted on facebook. Keep up the great work.

05/25/2013

Great article! I shared on Facebook. I have 2 observations:

1. It's important to remember BDSM isn't always about pain. There are plenty of folks who really dig the BD but not the SM. At it's core the common thread that runs through most BDSM type activities is emotional/psychological powerplay or stimulation.

2. I really do think there is something to the "born this way" angle. My very first sexual thoughts at 2 and 3 years old -- before I was ever exposed to anything remotely sexual-- were VERY kinky. It's simply what came naturally to me. Many kinky folks I talk with report the same sort of things.

05/31/2013

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