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Guys Find it Hard to be Sexy

Guys Find it Hard to be Sexy
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Do men feel sexy? What does it for them? Our friend AHubbyof2SexualMinds gives us his opinion.

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SwaggeringPagan  

Synchronicity or just good timing? I was thinking along these lines myself recently while attempting to look good for a date. Not a lot of options as noted, I just try to wear clothes that fit and are cut well.

Best advice I ever received from a woman on the subject; take a really attractive woman shopping with you. One you consider out of your league if possible, with the understanding that you want to know what SHE thinks is sexy or attractive. The answers will vary a lot but there are some interesting common themes that seem to come up. One that I was somewhat surprised by: tighter is not always better when it comes to pants. Snug or well fitted and flattering, yes....so tight your BVD tag can be read? Not so much....

As for FEELING sexy...ya got me bub. I could use a little more enlightenment there my own self....

03/21/2012
Imp0  

I find that when I'm dressing up for date night with my wife, it's the same khakis and a nice shirt that I wear to work. BOOR-ring.

While I'm sure there are *many* motivations for it, I often think that one attraction for male cross-dressing is so that he can experience the choice and excitement of dressing sexy. I'm certainly jealous of the options my wife has for dressing up to go out. She can wear different outfits to intentionally evoke different levels or types of sexiness. Men don't have those options available (or perhaps we just don't know it?)

03/29/2012

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