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Being thick ain't always easy, but it sure is beautiful.

Being thick ain't always easy, but it sure is beautiful. http://livingachangedlife.blogspot.com/2012/08/wordless-wednesday-size-doesnt-define.html
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Ever wondered why some thicker girls don’t like going shopping like the thinner females? Or why we don’t go out as much? It’s because some females aren’t comfortable with their bodies. For some women, like me, even thinking about writing an article like this one can make them want to cry.

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ijako9  

My wife is basically this story. She's hates going shopping except at maybe 3 places because they have clothes for "fat people like me" is what she always says. Yes she is a bigger woman but I think she's amazing in every way, body and sex appeal included. Just the other day we saw a hoodie she really like but it only went up to a large so she couldn't get it. She is working on losing weight which never easy but even if she didn't I will always love her for who she is. The only reason I want her to be skinnier is because it is healthier for her. All the "bigger" ladies need to realize this and don't be with a man that doesn't understand that. Good story, thanks!

09/27/2012
ChuChii  

I know where your wife is coming from, I go through it all the time, Just like today it took me two hours just to find the right outfit that would fit me. That's great I love how you support her , But yes it is healthy to lose some weight, and your right it isn't easy, its always worth the try.

She's Beautiful no matter what her size is, us women need to embrace that.
Thank you & Welcome, It wasn't easy or hard for me to write this, but this all came from the heart and how I feel and how I know other woman feel.

09/29/2012
Compersian  

I have no trouble finding women my size or larger beautiful. A lot of what I find attractive about them is confidence and an inner sense of happiness that shines through. I think about how fun it would be to touch them. Their size is not a turn off. In fact, exploring their bodies would be so sensual.
But when it comes to my body, a double standard kicks in. I can't stand my body. luckily I have a husband who loves me, all of me. He tells me I'm beautiful all the time. Why can't I believe him?

09/29/2012
ChuChii  

That is exactly how I feel with my fiance, but i think it is because we as woman, looking at our body everyday, and knowing the things we dont like and want to change, we always have that in mind, so we are starting to believe what we are thinking and then when someone comes along and tells us these wonderful things, we want to believe it but end up not. If your husband says your beautiful and he loves all of you then he means it. Just remind your self that your beautiful everyday.

10/01/2012
ChuChii  

That is exactly how I feel with my fiance, but i think it is because we as woman, looking at our body everyday, and knowing the things we dont like and want to change, we always have that in mind, so we are starting to believe what we are thinking and then when someone comes along and tells us these wonderful things, we want to believe it but end up not. If your husband says your beautiful and he loves all of you then he means it. Just remind your self that your beautiful everyday.

10/01/2012
ChuChii  

That is exactly how I feel with my fiance, but i think it is because we as woman, looking at our body everyday, and knowing the things we dont like and want to change, we always have that in mind, so we are starting to believe what we are thinking and then when someone comes along and tells us these wonderful things, we want to believe it but end up not. If your husband says your beautiful and he loves all of you then he means it. Just remind your self that your beautiful everyday.

10/01/2012
Shayla  

I love this I'm a thicker girl myself and I also have these same issues. I try to avoid shopping with my smaller petite friends and shop with girls who are my size or bigger. It is hard to find good looking clothes that flatter your body and dont show off problem areas like love handles. I was tall and thin all my life, just had bigger hips and thighs, and then I had my kids and never lost the weight (Im about 50 lbs heavier) and I actually feel more attractive. More womanly, with larger breasts, more curves, much more junk in the truck, and I wouldnt want to go back to my thin self ever again. Sometimes I do get a little self conscious when I see these thin women with their (according to the media) "perfect" bodies. But my man loves my body, tells me every single day that Im beautiful and wouldnt want to change anything about me, and it makes me feel good about myself and embrace my curves.

10/03/2012
Compersian  

I think you're right. Thank you ChuChii.

10/07/2012
ChuChii  

Your welcome Compersian

10/11/2012

I love this story, Reading it I was almost in tears because that is me. One problem I have with my body is when it comes to sex I put on a tank top because thats something you can comfortably move around in and you can cover up. I am a plus size girl so obviously that means rolls, I have had ex's that love my figure and I just can't figure out why. 1 more issue I have is riding (almost every plus size girl nightmare) I hate riding with a passion and any alternative I can do to make up for it I will. The fact that you have to support all of your body weight while going up and down is just 2 much for a girls knees lol (I feel like their saying mercy). As for shopping, I don't do it unless I absolutely have 2.

10/14/2012
ChuChii  

Thanks FantasyMonroe,
I do the same thing, I'll make sure have something covering my stomach or I turn the lights off.
My fiance hates when I do that. And as for riding, thats so truee, but i try my best to make my man happy, even if it means my legs and arms hurt. But now im learning to hold my self up, and im trying to lose weight. Shopping I just hate it, I rather just hope by my self even doing that im crying inside.

10/15/2012

So honest.

10/19/2012
lov69  

I am a bbw and I tell u I hate to go shoppin here in my town because all the 'fat' clothes are uggggglllly. Im 26 and about 3 yrs ago is when I finally completly undressed for sex. I always had ppl telling me that i was pretty I was like where. But not know my hubby brought me out of that faze.

10/28/2012

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